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What if the most valuable asset in your business wasn’t money, strategy, or even time — but your relationships?

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by publicity and marketing expert Selena Soo (back for her second appearance on the show!) to unpack the concept of ‘Rich Relationships’ — and why cultivating them is the smartest move any entrepreneur can make.

Selena reveals her top 5 must-have Rich Relationships (yes, you need all five), the difference between a true giver and a people-pleaser, and her brilliant framework for staying connected without burning out. We also explore her concept of the “Generosity Fund” — and how it can transform not just your relationships, but your entire business.

Press play to discover: why Rich Relationships are the most valuable currency in the world, how to build a network that uplifts and accelerates your growth, the 6 Circles of Connection (and how to use them to protect your energy), the 3 types of givers (and what your ‘type’ reveals about you), and the concrete ways that strong relationships have helped Selena grow her 7-figure empire.

This is one of those conversations that will shift how you approach connection forever. If you’re ready to expand your network, deepen your relationships, and grow your business with more joy and ease, then press play now — this one’s for you.

About Selena Soo

Selena Soo is a 7-figure business mentor, who helps experts and authors reach millions with their message. Through dozens of multi-6 figure and 7-figure launches, Selena has generated over $13 million in revenue in her first 10 years of business. She has also built more than 400 affiliate and referral partnerships.

An expert in publicity, Selena has helped thousands of entrepreneurs land media, in places that include O, The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Business Insider, and The Drew Barrymore Show. A former New Yorker, Selena is living her dream life in sunny Puerto Rico.

In this episode we chat about:

• The surprising backstory behind her rise as a global PR guru and relationship-building powerhouse (4:09)
• Why relationships — not time or money — are your most valuable business asset (6:25)
• The five Rich Relationships every entrepreneur needs to thrive (and why one isn’t enough) (8:57)
• The 6 Circles of Connection — and how they help protect your energy and focus (11:37)
• How to stay deeply connected to your network without burning out or losing your mind (20:50)
• The surprising difference between being a generous giver and a chronic people-pleaser (29:22)
• What a “Generosity Fund” is — and how it can radically transform your relationships (35:27)
• Real-world ways that Rich Relationships have helped her grow a 7-figure empire (38:02)
• Her free gift to help you start building powerful connections today (40:27)
• The two life-changing books she believes should be taught in every school (41:28)

Episode resources:

• SheLaunch (join here)
• Mastering Your Mean Girl by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Open Wide by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Comparisonitis by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Time Magic by Melissa Ambrosini and Nick Broadhurst (book)
• Selena Soo (Instagram)
• Selina Soo (website)
• How To Get Publicity, Reaching Millions With Your Message & Escaping An Abusive Relationship | Selena Soo (podcast)
• Rich Relationships: Create a Million-Dollar Network for Your Business by Selena Soo (book)
•  Get your free gift (website)
• Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown (book)

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Melissa: [00:00:00] Just before we dive in, I have to apologize for my very poor quality audio. I forgot to select my pro microphone, and as a result, the audio is not up to standard. However, this conversation was so good that I have to share it with you, so please excuse my audio quality and enjoy this epic conversation.

There’s so much gold in here and I had to share it with you. Now let’s dive in the Melissa Ambrosini Show. Welcome to the Melissa Ambrosini Show. I’m your host, Melissa bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, open, wide, comparisonitis and Time Magic. And I’m here to remind you that love is sexy, healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word.

Each week I’ll be getting up close and personal with thought leaders from around the globe, as well as your weekly dose of motivation so that you can create. Epic change in your own life and become the best version of [00:01:00] yourself possible. Are you ready? Beautiful. Beautiful. Hey, beautiful. Welcome back to the show.

I’m so excited about this episode because I have my dear friend Selena Sue back on the show. She was on episode 5 0 1, how to Get Publicity, reaching Millions with your message, and escaping an Abusive Relationship. And she is back today to celebrate the launch of her very first book, rich Relationships, which we are going to talk about in today’s episode.

And I highly recommend you grab yourself a copy. It is incredible. Now, for those of you that have never heard of. Selena. She is a seven figure business mentor who helps experts and authors reach millions with their message through dozens of multiple six and seven figure launches. She has generated over $13 million in revenue in the first 10 years of her business, and she has also built more than 400 affiliate and referral partnerships.

She’s an expert in [00:02:00] publicity and has helped thousands of entrepreneurs land media in places like the Oprah Magazine, Forbes Business Insider, and the Drew Barrymore Show. She’s a former New Yorker and she’s currently living in sunny Puerto Rico. And for everything that we mention in today’s episode, including the book, you can check out in the show notes, and that’s over@melissaramini.com slash 6 5 1.

Now without further ado, let’s bring on the incredible Selena soon.

Selena, welcome back to the show. I’m so excited to have you back on. But before we dive in, can you tell us what you had for breakfast this morning? 

Selina: Oh my goodness. What I had for breakfast, gosh, I had, this is gonna sound bad, but like a leftover burger. 

Melissa: No, there’s no judgment here. You do you. Thank you. Now, this is your second [00:03:00] time on the show.

You were on episode 5 0 1, how to get Publicity, reaching Millions with your message and escaping an Abusive Relationship. That was such an amazing conversation. I wanna recommend everyone go and listen to that. It was so juicy and so. I’ve got some friends staying with me at the moment and over breakfast this morning they said, oh, who are you interviewing?

And I said, oh, her name is Selena. She actually knows you. She goes, yeah, I know her work. And she’s like, oh, whatcha gonna talk about? And how did you meet? And so we got on this big conversation about how we met, and I think we do share that in the other episode. But you and I have known each other for a really, really long time.

13 or 14, and I was telling my friends that are staying here, I said, Selena is one of the most generous people you will ever meet. And she’s just such a sweetheart and a real heart of gold. And they were like, oh my [00:04:00] gosh, she sounds amazing. And so they were like, have fun. Go enjoy your conversation today.

Looking after my 4-year-old at the moment. So it is so good to have you back here. But for those that dunno about your business journey and how you gotta where you’re today, can you share a little bit about that for us? 

Selina: Absolutely. So when I was in my mid twenties, I had a quarter life crisis and I was working in a nonprofit.

At the time I was struggling with self-worth issues. I was clinically depressed. I was making about $42,000 a year, which is not a lot in New York City. I remember things getting so bad that my mom flew from Vancouver to be in New York, just to be by my side to make sure I was literally like putting food in my body, getting dressed, going to work.

She would accompany me on the subway, and I remember saying to a friend, you know, I just can’t keep living like this. That’s when she introduced me to this incredible female life coach. I joined this woman’s circle [00:05:00] and I got introduced to all these incredible experts and authors, you know, and you kinda go down that rabbit hole.

You learn about all these amazing people. And I would start to tell my friends like, oh my gosh, you know, this person, that person, ’cause their work is changing my life. And most of the time my friends had no idea who I was talking about. So that’s when it really dawned on me that sometimes the person with the most life-changing message, the message that could change people’s lives, even save their lives, is that best kept secret.

And so at the time I was really focused on media because I was like, that’s how I can like make a difference. I want to connect people to the media who can really elevate their brand, get them in front of hundreds, thousands of millions of people. So that was, you know, a rich relationship that I focused on.

And today my work is just so much broader because I believe that there are many different kinds of rich relationship and those are the fastest way to get from where we are to where we wanna be. And so, yeah, it feels so good to help people [00:06:00] really create these really beautiful networks of abundance, of love, of mutual caring and support to really help them unlock their full potential in the world.

Melissa: Yes. I remember you shared that story about your mom coming in the last episode, and you know, it just this testament to a mother’s love as well, my second baby, and.

I wanna talk now about rich relationships. So why does every entrepreneur need rich relationships? And what are rich relationships? 

Selina: Yes, yes. Let’s start with the basics. So, a rich relationship is one that massively enriches the quality of your business and life and rich relationships, as I was saying, they’re the fastest way to get from where you are to where you wanna be.

Every single goal or dream that you have can be achieved through a rich relationship. You know, in business it’s one thing. If we are the only ones telling the world, Hey, I’m great at what I [00:07:00] do, we need other people who are sharing our message, who are putting us in front of new audiences There, there’s many kinds of rich relationships.

I think that would be the, the next thing to really dive into, because I think sometimes when people think of rich relationships, I just have like kind of one definition or vision of what that means, but it’s really very holistic and expansive. 

Melissa: Tell us. 

Selina: Yes. So there are five key rich relationships that we want to have as entrepreneurs.

So first, a mentor, right? Every entrepreneur, we need a mentor. There is someone that has figured out the things that we are looking to do. They can help us avoid a lot of costly mistakes. And then two, we also need peers. We need people who get us, who are on the journey with us, right? And then three, we need those promoters.

So there’s different kinds of promoters. It could be someone that has a media platform. It could be someone that’s a super connector. It could be a referral partner, it could be a super fan that just loves sharing our work on social [00:08:00] media, but we definitely need promoters. Then number four, this is one that is often overlooked.

So this is the team member. Now, people know that they have team, but they don’t always think of it as a rich relationship, but I know that, you know, our team members are some of the people that are the closest to our business. A great team member can help make your business or they can break your business.

So this is a category of relationships that you also want to focus on. And then last but not least is number five, the confidant. So in business we’re gonna go through hard times and we want people who are not just there for the highs, but also for the lows. People that we can really be our fullest and also messiest version of ourselves with.

And so this could look like a therapist. It could look like an executive coach. It could look like a very best friend, but we absolutely need people who we can be a hundred percent real with. 

Melissa: I love this so much and I wanna encourage everyone [00:09:00] listening to kind of go, okay, who is my mentor? Who are my peers, who are my promoters?

Who is my team member? Who is my confident, like, I’m gonna do this for myself because it’s just nice to go. Okay. Have I got all of those covered? And I wanna ask you, do you feel like just one in each of those categories is enough, or would you recommend more? 

Selina: Yeah, that’s a great question. I mean, I do recommend more.

You know, there is that saying that one is the most dangerous number in business. When you know you’re counting on one person, I mean, anything could happen. I think for mentorship, it’s fine to have one primary mentor, and I actually don’t encourage people to switch mentors all the time. I think there’s something powerful about someone who was a witness on your business journey and has been with you over multiple years.

That being said, if you feel like you’ve truly outgrown a mentor. You’re looking for a different expertise, then you know, you can find someone different. But you know, mentorship is definitely a rich relationship and it [00:10:00] is really powerful when that mentor fully sees you. And sometimes you need to give it time, right, for that relationship to, that’s what I would say about the mentor and then with peers, you know, you definitely want multiple people to be able to bounce ideas off of.

And then also for promoters, you know, I’ve had people who have been incredible promoters, but maybe one year. They’ve got their book launch or they’re just shifting focus, and so it’s a lot of pressure to just put everything on one person. And also with a team member. I think it’s dangerous when you know, you rely on someone and something could happen.

They could get Covid and be out of commission for two weeks. They could have a death in their family, they could find another position. So it’s always great to have backup and something that I talk about in the book is with the confidant. I know for myself, like, oh my gosh, like in life there’s a lot that you know, you know, we can deal with in terms of, oh my gosh.

Things happening personally with kids and family and then also within the business. There’s so much, I think that if you only have one confidant, that’s a lot of [00:11:00] pressure for someone to like be there, kind of, you know, at your beck and call whenever there is a challenge. But when you have multiple people that you can lean on, then it’s less demanding.

So yeah, such a great question. I really think that we. Should have multiple people in the categories, even if we have one Who is the primary? Love that. 

Melissa: Yes. I wanna encourage everyone to write those five down and put next to each of those who are yours? Who’s your mentors? Who’s your peers? Who’s your promoter?

Who’s your team member? Who are your confidence? So. We can just get super clear if there are any gaps, and I just love this so much. It’s so good. So one of your frameworks is the six Circles of Connection, which you use to manage your network without burning out. Can you break 

Selina: this down for us? Oh my goodness, Melissa, I’m just so excited because this is my favorite thing in the book and it’s a lot of people’s favorite things.

So, you know, when it comes to relationships, the reality is not all [00:12:00] relationships are created equal. As humans, we are equal, but our relationships with each other, there are some that are gonna be higher priority, right? So there are certain people that we know, they love us, they care about us, they’re gonna show up for us.

We feel safe with them, we trust them. Those are gonna be like. More prioritized relationships. So with the six circles, we’re gonna start with circle one, and as I’m going through this, Melissa, I would love for you and the listeners to really think about who they have in each of these circles, as we did with the exercise before.

So circle one is your inner most circle. This is typically one to three people. It’s a handful, it’s a small number. Sometimes it’s zero. But circle one are people that are doing life with us. They are on the polls of what is happening day by day or week by week. They are there with us through the highs.

They are here with us through the lows. They are people that pour into us. So Melissa, who would be a circle one for you? 

Melissa: So definitely [00:13:00] Nick, and then I’ve three girl best friends.

Actively know what’s going on in my life way today. And the thing is though, two of those just recently moved away from here. So Sally and Nat have both left, which was so sad. But we still keep in contact, you know, via Voxer and WhatsApp and things like that. And she’s actually the one that’s staying here right now, Sally, so, so we still see each other a bit, but we talk all the time.

All the time. So they actively know what’s going on in my life. In my business, in my parenting season. So those three would be the inner circle. 

Selina: Yeah, that’s perfect for really just like painting a picture for people. So if I ask any one of them, like Sally, like I haven’t talked to Melissa forever, what’s happening in her world, right?

A circle one would know how to answer that question automatically. They’re like, oh yeah, this is what’s happening. We just talked the other day. Right. So that’s a circle one. You know, [00:14:00] ideally you have a couple people there, right? It’s actually kind of dangerous to only have one, because if that relationship ends, then you’re just gonna feel completely shattered.

So it’s healthy to have a couple people in Circle one. Now, circle two, these are your treasured connections. So they might not know the day by day or the week by week, but their soul family, these are people that care about you so much, and if you reached out to them and said, I need help, if you texted them and said, Hey.

Is it possible? Can we get on the phone in two hours? I really, really need you. Someone in circle two would want to rearrange your schedule to help you, right? I, you know, when I talk about relationship building, I do talk about giving without attachment. However, if someone is in circle one and circle two, it should be their pleasure and their priority is show up for you when you say that you need help.

So that’s how you know someone’s in circle two. Like you can absolutely count on them and you can be your full self with them. So that could be maybe a dozen people. For some people that have very active networks, maybe it’s more than [00:15:00] that. But typically it’s like half a dozen, six dozen people are in circle two now.

Then you have circle three. So this is your active network. A lot of your rich relationships are gonna be here. So this is where you have mutual caring trust. These are people that you invite over to the party. You trust ’em so much that even if they, you know, let’s say they were in your city and they need to crash for a night, all of a sudden you would be comfortable letting them into your home, being around your kids.

You’d be comfortable sharing private information, knowing that there’s someone that’s high integrity and you can just trust them, right? There’s someone that you would also feel comfortable referring business to and introducing people to others and just being, you know, associated in a significant way.

Right? So that’s a circle three. That is usually multiple dozens of people, right? For some people that have big networks, that could even be, you know, over a hundred people. Right now we’re going into circle four. So Circle four are distant connections. So there’s three primary [00:16:00] reasons why someone might be in circle four.

Reason number one, you just met them, so they’re an acquaintance. Even if you’re like, oh my gosh, this person’s so amazing. They’re my new business bestie. Well, on day one. You’re not, they’re not gonna have the proximity and the trust that a circle one, two, or three would, right? Because they’re still a stranger and it needs, you need time to actually get to know them and for that trust to be earned.

So therefore, they’re in circle four. Another reason why they might be in circle four is you’re like, wow, there’s really this values misalignment. Maybe you know, you have history, you like them, but you notice every time you talk to them, they’re down in the dumps. They’re always negative, they’re always criticizing people, they’re gossiping.

Or maybe there’s someone that like. They say one thing, but they do another. You feel like you can’t really count on them, and it is just like, it’s not quite, you know, in alignment for you, but you’ll still have them in your network. You still care about them and maybe even still support each other, you know, in certain ways in terms of just, you know, being [00:17:00] like a friendly person to them.

But there is some, you know, healthy distance, right? Another reason why small might be in circle four is you’re at a place in your life where circle one, two, and three are full to the math. Like you don’t have the mental bandwidth to really like take in this other person and really like, you know, be a person that can show up, support them, actively engage, right?

You can’t have an active relationship, so they need to be in circle four. It’s still good to have circle four. There’s value. It’s what they call weak ties, but you just don’t have to actively invest in them, you know, all the time. Now. Then there’s circle five, so these are disconnected relationships, so couple reasons why they’re disconnected.

One could be this person has betrayed you and they just crossed a line, and you’re not going to be in relationship with them anymore. That’s a choice you’ve made. Another reason might be. The relationship was good before, but now it’s like you keep on having these conversations, trying [00:18:00] to fix things and it’s like, this just isn’t fixable.

They’re not a terrible person, but it does cause a lot of drama and chaos and if you’re just honest, you’re like, this is not a healthy relationship for me to, you know, have actively in my life. Right. And then another reason might be maybe you don’t even aren’t close to them, they haven’t done anything to you, but you know that they are a dangerous person, that other people in your network feel uncomfortable and you also feel unsafe.

You don’t want to get close, right? So that’s why they’re in circle five. And then there’s circle six. So these are unknown connections. So that is everyone else in the world, or maybe they know you, but you don’t know them. I really love this framework, and one of the reasons I came up with this framework is someone named Sheri Sota, who was a transformation guide, and at one point she was Oprah’s executive producer.

I heard her once say, maintaining a friendship not rooted in your truth, keeps you out of integrity. [00:19:00] And Melissa, when I heard that, I just had shivers like up and down my arms because that, when I heard that four years ago, I was out of integrity. I had multiple relationships that were not aligned with my truth, that were not making me happy.

And you know, it doesn’t start out that way. You know, usually when you meet someone there, there’s so much more to be revealed, right? So maybe at first the person was great, but then all of a sudden over time, it’s like, wow, I didn’t realize that team member was so emotionally volatile and during times of stress, she would be condescending.

I felt unsafe inside my own company, but Oh, but she plays such an important role that it really doesn’t happen that much. I think she was just having a bad day. Right. But that wasn’t aligned with, you know, my highest self and my truth. Or like, let’s say you have a friend and you love this person, they’re so much fun and they’re a relationship coach, but you know that they’re always arguing with their partner and they’re creating all kinds of like unnecessary drama with you.

And so it’s like, well, there’s a part of you, yes, you care about that [00:20:00] person. It’s like, well, how can you be that like ultimate supporter when they’re not living in alignment? Right? So that’s not gonna be connected to your truth. So I had a couple of relationships like that. I mean, most of my relationships were amazing, but I think we all know that even if we have one, two, or three misaligned relationships, like we, we don’t feel good.

And so this is really a mental framework for us. We don’t have to tell people, I’ve moved you from circle two to circle four, but you know, and you energetically adjust. I don’t have to get back to them immediately. I don’t have to bend over backwards. I can create some space. And so this is a way to really manage all those different connections in your network while staying in integrity, prioritizing the relationships that matter and not burning out in the process.

Melissa: I love this so much. And you all let the queen of relationships, so how do you maintain them? A four month old baby. I’ve got a 4-year-old, I’ve got my husband, [00:21:00] my business, I’ve got, you know, my own self care. How do you maintain all of these relationships? How do you keep watering them? Because we all know that the grass is greener where you water it.

So the more you water a relationship, the more it’s gonna thrive. But how do you do it if you’ve got like four kids and your partner and your business and yourself up? 

Selina: Yeah, so you really have to focus on high leverage and high impact activities. Now, when you’re building a relationship for the first time, you generally do want to have like a one-on-one, right?

And establish that direct connection with someone. But once that relationship has been established, there’s easy ways to nurture and maintain the relationship without it taking a ton of time. So, for example, let’s see, you see your friend and they’re announcing. Oh my gosh. I’m launching a book or I’m launching a podcast, or I am.

Raising money, you know, for something that I care about. Right? People are sharing what, you know, what are their meaningful goals, right? So show up for them during the [00:22:00] times that matter. You don’t have to show up all the time, but when it matters, be that dream amplifier. Right? The other thing that I talk to people about is being a pain detective, right?

So this is, and actually even backing up, I wanna share this concept ’cause Thank you. I’m, I’m humbled that, you know, when you think of me, you think of generosity. It’s something that I really want others to embrace in their life. And so a term that I’ve coined is called breathtaking generosity. And so it’s this idea, it’s what it sounds like.

Someone is so generous and it moves you in a way where like it actually takes your breath away. You don’t even know what to say. You kind of transformed and seen and supported at such a deep level. And so it’s like, how can we do that for other people? The way that we do it is, you know, we are very attuned to what people’s goals and dreams are, and we wanna be that dream amplifier and help them with that goal and dream.

Or we are that pain detective and we see where people that we care about are suffering. And if someone was like, you know Selena, Melissa, like, I’m not a [00:23:00] mind reader. How do I know when someone’s suffering? You probably do know, right? Like there are natural disasters where people have had to evacuate, you know, from their homes, from a fire, from a hurricane.

There are people that you know that are having challenges and their relationships, whether there marriage is on the rocks, they’re going through a divorce, their behavioral issues with their kids, or there’s illness and sickness within their family. Or maybe their business isn’t doing well. Maybe they once identified as, you know, a six figure or seven figure entrepreneur, or they did a particular thing and now it’s no longer working out, and they’re wondering, am I still relevant?

Do I still matter? Right there. There are just so many reasons why someone might be in pain. And so when someone’s in pain, how can you be the first to show up, not the last to show up when someone shares their dream with you again, how can you be the first to show up and not the last to show up? And so, you know, I’ve been so blessed, like with my book launch, I’ve had a lot of people when they know I have a book, they’re like, Selena, I want you on my podcast.

[00:24:00] Right? It’s just kinda like automatic, like, let me extend that. Let me support you. Or people who are like, I’ve got a group program, I would love to buy 20 copies for my mastermind clients. Like if you can be someone that gives without people having to like ask you, someone’s really going to remember that.

You know, one of my favorite stories of how I helped people in my network is I was going through. Just some, some turbulence financially. A couple things happened. One is I had a second property that I thought was gonna be a great, you know, stream of, you know, as they say, passive income. But I found that real estate is really not that passive.

And what happened is obvious properties popped up in the area and so I ended up, you know, not having a tenant and basically losing $6,000 a month. So that was not fun. I had also converted my, my retirement savings into a self-directed IRA because I wanted to invest in crypto and within several [00:25:00] months I lost a hundred thousand dollars.

And then there were ups and downs and shifts in the marketplace. And it was like, you know, I really need, I, you know, I work with business coaches and all of that, but I think I need a money coach. I need someone to dig into my personal finances and create a game plan with me. I just found it so helpful and I would tell my friends, oh my gosh, you gotta work with this person.

Her name’s Jenna Rose, but my friends were not taking action and so I went to Jenna Rose and I said, Hey, I think that you are amazing. And I like, one of the things I believe the most in the world is that the power of coaching and how it can transform our lives. That’s why I even do the work I do. I want people to experience your work.

What if I bought like a hundred sessions from you? Like, what if I bought like packages and I gifted people, like a bundle of four sessions, like what would that look like? What could you offer me? I just, you know, introduced you to the most like dream client and she was a brand new coach, so I was one of her first clients.

And [00:26:00] she also realized that sometimes it can take two or even three conversations to turn someone into a client. And she was always, you know, willing to give like an initial call or two for free anyways. And so she actually created a bundle for me and it cost me $200 to give someone four money coaching session.

And the retail value is 600, but I got it for 200 ’cause I was like, I’m just gonna give it to, you know, anyone that I know that can use it. And so, you know, I gave it to a friend who was going through a divorce and she was like, wow, you know, Jenna Rose showed me that I was entitled to so much more money than I realized.

Like, this really changed the game for me, you know, as a single mom. So thank you. And then another person that, you know, another rich relationship of mine that I poured into was like, you know, Jenna Rose showed me how I can save $1,500 a month. Like I can do this. If we do the math, $1,500 a month is $18,000 a year.

So let’s think about it, right? [00:27:00] That costs me $200. I could have put that $200 in the stock market and at a 7% return, I would’ve made $14, right? $14 is not gonna change my life. And I’m not saying don’t put money in the stock market, but what I’m saying is in addition to all the places you put your money.

Oh, I’m gonna spend, I don’t know, $2,000 a month for someone to manage my social media. Okay, that’s $24,000 a year. Or I’m gonna spend this much in, you know, Facebook ads. I did that, you know, a little while ago and like got nothing from my $7,000. Right? You know, I’m gonna do this, I’m gonna do that. Why not carve out some money, uh, generosity fund to pour into your rich relationships, the people that matter to you.

And so. There’s a lot of different ways to look at this, but like, let’s just say you are, I don’t know, let’s say you set aside $2,000 a year, or let’s say you’re a seven figure business owner. You make a million for easy math, and you’re gonna put [00:28:00] 1%, just 1%. $10,000 into your rich relationships. I can guarantee that when you pour in the to the people that you care about, who love you and love you back, and people that you want to see win, you’re gonna create this energy of abundance that good things are gonna come back to you.

Right? So you could pour it into your friends, your colleagues, your team members, your VIP clients, right? Even if one client renews, you probably made all your money back. Right. So I think that this is something that people don’t think about, but when people like just it’s automatic, like I’ve carved out the money I want to give, like just think about the world that we would live in, like just how much richer that would feel for all of us.

Melissa: I love this so much. The ROI on that is saying, you have a book launch and you’ve invested all of this. Relationships and then your book comes out and all of those people that you’ve invested to turn around and promote your book, and your book becomes the number one New York Times [00:29:00] bestseller. It’s such an amazing reframe.

And also like you’re doing it because you want to do it, because you love to do it. You’re not doing it expectations. You know, Nick and I always say. I talk about this in my book, open Wide Expectations Ruin Relationships, so we need to give without having any expectations. And you talk about there are three types of givers.

Can you expand on that for us? 

Selina: Yeah, absolutely. I love it because this conversation about relationships has so many nuances. So first there is the indiscriminate giver, and as I go through each of these, I will say that all of us over our lifetime have had moments where we’ve fallen into every category, right?

So there’s, there’s no judgment here. So an indiscriminate giver is someone that gives from a place of oftentimes not enough. I need to prove myself. I need you to like me. If you ask me for something, I must say yes. [00:30:00] And so oftentimes they feel depleted. And even if they were the one that initiated, like, oh, I’ll take care of that, let me help you.

But then they start to feel overwhelmed and they get resentful or even angry. So that’s an indiscriminate giver. Now then there is a transactional giver, and that is someone that’s like, I’m only going to give if I know I’m gonna get this thing in return. Right? So it’s very tit for tap. Now the third type of giver is a rich giver, and this is someone that gives purposefully and intentionally.

They’re not running themselves ragged like the indiscriminate giver, but they’re not someone that’s like, oh, I’m gonna give to you only if I get this thing back. Rather, they’re giving from a place of a full cup and they are so excited to help people. They feel energized and they create these abundant, these energetically rich relationships.

Right. And these, and you know the indiscriminate giver, right? They center. They center. The other person, the transactional giver, centers themself. And the rich giver is someone that thinks about the other person, but they [00:31:00] also think about themselves. They don’t lose themselves in the process, and they also create space so that other people can pour into them.

Being a rich giver is really the key to success in relationships. And if I had to summarize my book in one sentence, like what does that help you do? Like the book Rich Relationships teaches you how to be a rich giver. Because here’s the thing, if you are a generous person, everyone’s gonna want you in their circle.

1. When I think about like who I connect with, okay, so I will say like, personal brand is important. That’s gonna bring people into your ward. They’re like, wow, this person’s got a great reputation. My friend says she’s amazing, right? Like, you know, I love her work, right? These things matter. But what’s gonna keep people in relationship to you is your personal character.

Their personal relationship with you, how you make them feel, right? And if you’re someone who’s generous, you make them feel that they matter. You make them feel like they’re a priority. You make them feel seen. And there’s so many ways that we can do that, Melissa, that don’t take a lot of time, that don’t take a lot of money.

So we talked about breathtaking [00:32:00] generosity, doing that, those huge, those wow things, right? Connected to people’s goals and dreams, but it can also be something as simple as sending someone a voice note. Like, oh my gosh, I just saw that you announced you have a book coming out. You know, just wanted to let you know like, when you’re ready, I’m here to support you, or happy to jump on like, you know, a 30 minute brainstorming call or hit me up on Voxer or you know, or let me share like this 30 minute podcast that could really help you.

Or just even being like, you know, I wanted to let you know I checked out your podcast, or I was just listening to your recent webinar. Honestly, like everything you said was so gold. This is, you know what I really took away from it. Like, I just want you to know that like your work is so excellent and you know, we all see it, right?

So it could be that, or it could just be someone, something really lighthearted, you know, and you just send them a picture, the two of you together. Hey, you just popped into my thoughts like, you know, miss you, you know, it really could be anything. So yeah, you want to like maintain your relationships, right?

So you want to, to nurture them [00:33:00] and it can be like those beautiful gestures, but it can also be, you know, those little pings and reminders that like, Hey, I am thinking of you. 

Melissa: I love that so much. Very simple, very. To do and you know, I used to have a reminder pop up in my phone to send three voice messages to three people each day to really nurture those relationships.

I have not been doing it because I have a newborn, but I will get back into that. Such a nice reminder and just like little thinking of you or I.

It really goes a long way. Like just I see you, or I think you’re an amazing mama. You know, like just on half of your children, you’re amazing. You know, just something like that. It really does go a long way, so I love that. So how do we know what others need? You know, you spoke about the pain detective, like how do we know, how do we add value [00:34:00] to our most important relationships, and how do we know what they need?

Selina: Yeah, so how do we know what we they need? It’s really about, well, it’s two things. One, if you’re in a similar boat, like let’s say they’re a mother and you’re a mother, you probably know what they need. What do you need as a mother? Right? You know, whether it’s friends or things that can help you save time or different resources, right?

If you’re an entrepreneur. And you’re friends with other entrepreneurs, you probably know that they need visibility. They need clients. They are looking for things that save them time. And so a lot of times as humans, we need very similar things. So that’s a way. Another thing is just paying attention, right?

People share. This is what’s happening in my world. They post on social media, they mention it in their newsletter, they mention it in person, they mention it when you’re having conversations in passing. Or you can actually ask people, Hey, you know, I was just thinking about you. Like what’s happening in your [00:35:00] world?

What are you excited about? What are, what are, you know, some of the goals that you have, you can’t really ask a stranger that, but for someone that you are in relationship, you know, you can say, Hey, I wanna hear what’s going on. I would love an update. Right. And so those are ways that you can find out what they want, like they’re literally gonna tell you.

Melissa: Yeah. Beautiful. I love that. You know, to tune in, listen to the subtle cues because they’re always there. So I love that. So, so, so helpful. You talk about a generosity fund, what is it and why does everyone need one? 

Selina: Yeah, so the generosity fund expanding, what we discussed earlier is it’s going to be funds like financial resources set aside to pour into your richest relationships.

Now you could also include in the generosity fund, your time, your services, your talent, but it is really making that intentional decision to be giving to others. And you know, that way when you see that someone has in [00:36:00] need or someone has a big dream, it’s automatic. Oh, I have this money in my generosity fund.

This is one of my richest relationships. Of course, I’m buying 20 bucks. Like, yeah, no big deal. Absolutely. I’m leaving that Amazon review. I’m gonna take the time to do it right, whatever it is. Or it might be your own services. You know, gifting, complimentary sessions with people, or if you have team members, you could gift that.

Maybe someone is a brand new business owner, your friend’s starting their own business, and you’re like, you know what? I would love to gift you my virtual assistant, 20 hours of her time on me to help you set up your, you know, customer relationship management system. Or, you know, love to gift you some time with my copywriter to write three emails in your nurture sequence, right?

Or. You know, I know that you’re a new mom and you know, you probably are in desperate need of a date night. I would love to cover costs of the babysitter for the night, right? So there’s things like that that don’t cost you a lot of time, but [00:37:00] maybe it’s just a little bit of money. Or if you’re someone that has much more time than financial resources, then you know, maybe you, you know, do do it the other way around.

But there’s so many different options. 

Melissa: I love that so much. It’s so good. This is just gold. Once again, you have inspired me to be way more generous. My parents are two of the most generous people I have ever met. They’re so generous with their money, with their time, with their things, like they’ll go above and beyond.

They the epitome of breathtaking generosity like. The way that they go above and beyond for their children, for their grandchildren, even for like my friends, my best friends who are very important in my life, my parents will drive them to the airport, will let them stay at their house. Like it’s just above and beyond.

So you have inspired me yet again [00:38:00] to be even more generous, just like my parents. But I wanna hear how have these rich relationships helped you grow your business? 

Selina: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, there’s so many examples, but when I really think about it, I think that the most powerful thing is like having people that like see you and witness you and you know, also support you through those lows.

Because there are times where it feels like your business can crush and destroy you, you know, and you need to pivot and you need to, you know, overcome that challenge. But there, there’s so many different ways, you know, rich relationships. The book teaches you how to build a million dollar network. I’ve had multiple relationships that that single relationship alone is a million dollar relationship.

Right. So like a mentor for example, I’ve definitely had more than one mentor that have taught me things that have brought a million dollars into my business over the past 13 years. Absolutely. I have also had people like a [00:39:00] key mentor of mine. I used to, you know, and, and sadly, this is not a rich relationship for me anymore, which might be an interesting story.

We could talk about that too. But at one point I sent this person over a million dollars worth of business, like over time in terms of like if we count like upsells and renewals. And I’ve also had people, one person send me over a million dollars in business. So even a single relationship can do that.

Yeah, I really believe that everybody can have a million dollar network, and especially if you’re someone that is looking to be in business, like for the long run, right? Like let’s say you’re gonna be in business for 20 years. If you made $50,000 per year, that’s already a million dollar network, right? If like you’re getting all of your clients through referrals and recommendations and people giving you glowing reviews, and that gets people to join your programs, right?

And so, yeah, I’ve, I’ve had people where there have been really challenging times in my business and they’ve helped me like [00:40:00] figure it out and like climb out and, you know, kind of reinvent myself and create that abundance people that have set me business and just also, yeah, people that get me and help me, you know, get through the low moments, the times when I doubt myself when I question myself.

So it’s really, it’s done so much for me and I feel like it, it does so much for everybody, you know, when they truly decide to lean in and, you know, tap into the power of rich relationships. So 

Melissa: good. 

Selina: Now you have a 

Melissa: free gift for everyone. Can you tell us about that? 

Selina: Yes, yes. So my free gift is, so my book is coming out on May 13th, but I wanted to give everyone an opportunity to start reading the book right away.

So they can go to Rich Relationships book.com/melissa, and they’re gonna get the first four chapters for free. Yay. 

Melissa: So generous 

Selina: of you. Thank you. Okay. The other thing that they’re gonna get are my rich relationship scripts, because as people went through the book, they’re like, oh my gosh, I’m obsessed with the [00:41:00] scripts, but they’re all throughout the book.

Could you put them all in one place for me? So I created this bundle of over 25 scripts. So. That’s there@richrelationshipsbook.com slash Melissa, and if they sign up for those gifts, they’re gonna be entered into a raffle and one person is going to win a thousand dollars. And I’ll be announcing that on May 31st.

Oh my gosh. It’s 

Melissa: so generous and so exciting and so fun, and I’m so excited that your book is coming out very, very soon. Now, speaking of books, let’s pretend you have a magic wand and you could put one book in the school curriculum of every high school around the world. Actually, I’m gonna give you two books.

You can choose your book. Of course, rich relationships, it has to be in the curriculum. I feel like it would be so powerful for that 16, 15-year-old boy and girl like so.

Selina: Yeah, I mean, my favorite book is Essentialism and it’s all about [00:42:00] like quality over quantity, doing less to accomplish more, and that’s very much in theme with my book. Right. My book, the way that my book is different also, and I think this is really significant to talk about. Is that there’s other relationships books out there, but a lot of them are dated.

They were written a while ago. They’re, you know, older, you know, white men. And I think that there is something about a female voice, a female perspective, a woman of color, an introvert to add to the conversation of the. Richness that is out there. And yeah, the strategies that I teach work for anyone, whether they’re extroverted or introverted, whether they’re neurodivergent, whether they’re a busy mom.

And so, yeah, I actually do feel like this is a book I want everyone to read. And then Essentialism goes side by side because it’s all about being really discerning and thoughtful about, you know, your time and energy and what’s going to get you. The most beautiful, abundant results. I [00:43:00] love 

Melissa: that. We’ll link to both of those books in the show notes and your free resources that you’ve got as well.

We’ll link to everything in the show notes. Now, I would love to hear about your day. Can you take us through like a quote unquote typical day in your life? 

Selina: Absolutely. Yeah. So I wake up at around seven o’clock and one of my favorite things to do is take a walk outside. And so I live near these two beautiful parks, so.

I love doing some laps around the park. Sometimes my bestie joins me and so that’s super fun. And then after my walk, I start working. I usually start working at around eight o’clock and you know, I work for a couple of hours and then I take some time for my lunch, and then I work a little more. And I love going out to eat.

Like that’s my favorite thing. So not every night, but a couple of times a week. I love going to a restaurant. Either I’m very comfortable eating by myself, and also I enjoy like going with friends, so I’ll do that. [00:44:00] And then more recently, I’ve been taking dance classes because something that I just realized is like, oh my gosh, I’m so in my head and I really need to get outta my head and into my body.

The first time I started taking dance classes, it was actually very uncomfortable for me, Melissa, because I wasn’t good at it and it was forcing me to use my brain and stretch myself in different ways. What kind of dancing? All kinds, like feminine dance, like kind of like kind of S factor central stuff.

I’ve done that before. I’ve done salsa dancing, but I was so proud last year. I mean, even though, you know, busy entrepreneur, last year I took 177 dance classes. Right. So it’s like, and I think that it’s really important because I was in a place before where I overly identified as an entrepreneur. I overly identified with my work.

That was like the number one thing in my life that was the majority. And then when work isn’t going well, then you feel like there’s something wrong with you, right? Like you don’t [00:45:00] feel good. There’s always ups and downs, right? Maybe there’s some years like your business is not gonna grow. Maybe it will grow internally, but not externally.

So I just felt like it was really healthy for me to have something else to pour myself into where I could grow and expand myself. That wasn’t just connected to work and productivity, that was connected to play and adventure and expanding myself in new ways. So, yeah, and I actually do because I’m all about, I mean, efficiency is actually one of my values.

I do my classes on at home. I put it up on the big screen. I have a private instructor and one of them is actually, she’s in Australia, so we usually do classes at eight o’clock at night here, and then I think it’s like 8:00 AM where she’s in. And yeah, it’s just something that I’m so proud of that like I prioritize this other area of life.

Melissa: Beautiful, hun. I love that so much. I’m such a huge fan of dance and I’m just in a season where I can’t really get to a lot of classes right now because of my faith, but I’m so [00:46:00] excited for that time where I can start getting to classes again and moving my body in that way. I accept that it’s not right now, and I talk.

Responsibility for how you feel and for showing up for yourself. That’s exactly what I would call you’ve done there is you’ve been self-led and it’s very easy, especially as working mothers to put everything above our own self-care and now filling ourselves up. And I did that for many years and it.

I’m my number one priority and to be the best mother and the best businesswoman that I can be, I have to fill myself up. So doing those things that fill me up like dance or moving my body. For me, I got a personal trainer, so I do [00:47:00] two personal training sessions a week, and then I go to one Hot Pilate a week, and this my with two little kids.

And so I’ll, on the other days I’ll walk or I’ll do a little workout at home. But for me, improvement is essential for my mental health and also meditation. And then just things like journaling and you know, before kids I would like hour long morning routines, but. For me, it’s just about what really lights me up.

What are the big needle movers to really fill me up because I’m my number one priority, and then it’s my children and my husband and my work and my relationships. Like there’s so much in my life, but I have to take care of myself first. So I love that you do that. 

Selina: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, this is a big part of rich relationships, right?

The richest relationship is the one that you have with yourself, and if you are someone. That isn’t happy with your life. You [00:48:00] always put yourself last. You know, you lose yourself in other priorities. That’s gonna show up in how you connect with people, how you relate to people, and also how they see you.

And you know, people, they don’t just care about what you do, they care more about who you are, right? What you embody. So all of this is very much related to, you know, the idea of, you know, building those rich relationships. Yeah. Absolutely. Is there anything else in your day, little rituals or routines that you do?

I mean, I’m just obsessed with Voxer. Like, I don’t know how I did without it. It’s just, it really helps me stay connected to my friends, and I love that it doesn’t take that long, you know, in the past, you know, you would get on the phone and talk to a friend for an hour and now you can just leave like little, you know, like.

Three minute messages here and there. So yeah, I do love, like, you know, taking a break from my day and just checking in with my friends or sending voice notes to people to let them [00:49:00] know that I’m thinking about them. Another thing that I really love and recently I’ve been doing it weekly is I’ll go to a salt water Flo.

And it’s bad because I don’t know, I, I am a little bit, sometimes I find myself like a little wired to my phone. Like, do I really need to be checking social media that much? Or I just even find myself like, you know, turning on music all the time and just like wanting to be like stimulated. But I think it also co, like right now I’ve got a lot going on with the book and stuff like that, right?

So it like kinda energizes you, okay, there’s this thing, there’s that thing. But sometimes you just need to disconnect from it all and it’s the most fueling thing. And for me, the salt water float tank, that’s just like a next level, like reset. So yeah, that’s something that I’ve been doing weekly. Oh, I love that.

So 

Melissa: good. Okay. I’ve got three rapid fire questions for you now. Are you ready? Yes. What is one thing that we can do 

Selina: for our health? I think the most important thing is having good friends. So read the book [00:50:00] Rich Relationship. That’s good for your health. 

Melissa: Yes. 

Selina: What is one thing 

Melissa: we can do for our wealth? You’re probably gonna say the same thing.

Selina: Yeah, it is the same thing. I mean, let’s not overcomplicate it, 

Melissa: and it’s probably the same one for this too, but what’s one thing we can do for more love in our life? 

Selina: Yeah, I mean, I think the number one thing to create more love in your life is to focus on loving yourself. And so one thing that I once heard someone say talk about in the book, which I love, love, love, is this idea that our weaknesses.

Our over-functioning strengths. And so I have things that are weaknesses. We all have our rich relationship, strengths and weaknesses. And I think that sometimes there are parts of ourselves that we don’t accept. We feel embarrassed, we want to hide them. We wish we werent that way. And I think that when we do that, we do actually hold ourselves back from building the richest relationship.

So let’s say for example, if you’re like. I’m not a very detail oriented person and I kind of drop the ball on things, you [00:51:00] know? So maybe you’re that, but you are maybe a visionary person that sees the bigger picture, right? Or maybe it’s like, uh, I am someone that sometimes comes across as like hypercritical.

Well, you know, maybe you’re someone that really holds people to a higher standard of excellence and you help people achieve things and be things that they could have never been by themselves. Right. Oh, maybe, you know, oh, I’m so bad at, you know, crowds. I am, you know, a wallflower. I’m not a social butterfly.

I feel embarrassed that I’m not more extroverted and charismatic. Well, maybe instead that you’re someone who’s really great at building intimate relationships and making people feel seen. So I’m not saying that there aren’t areas where we have to work on ourselves, right? But the thing is, oftentimes when there’s something that you struggle with, it’s usually actually tied to one of your biggest strengths.

So instead of rejecting yourself and hating yourself, being embarrassed, how can I just dial it back a little bit, right? I don’t have to be someone else, but just [00:52:00] dial it back just a little bit. Right? So, Matthew Hussey, he says, you can either change yourself or accept yourself. There’s only two options.

This is something that has really helped me because I used to beat myself up. I’m like, I wish I was more extroverted. I wish that I used to feel like I’m not interesting enough, I’m not dynamic enough. But I think part of me not being interesting or feeling that way is I actually like held myself back.

I would censor myself a lot. I would judge myself and once I started to like really own all of myself, including my weaknesses and like share my weaknesses with other people. People would be like, oh my gosh. Like I feel so accepted to be myself. ’cause I’m imperfect too and it’s all good. You are so 

Melissa: interesting when you say those things, I’m like, is that actually coming outta her mouth?

Because I find you so fascinating and so beautiful and generous and interesting and all of the things. But yeah, we can sometimes get in our own head and really beat ourselves up, which is just not helpful because. [00:53:00] Magical, unique, incredible beings, and, and I love that Matthew Hussey said that I’ve had him on the podcast.

You either accept it or you change it. And someone else said that in relationships you can either accept your partner or you leave. You’ve only got two options. And it’s, it reminded me of that saying you can either. The way they’re or you leave, and same with you can accept that quirk about yourself or you change it.

There’s only two options, but stop beating yourself up about it. Yes, exactly. Selena, this has been so amazing. Is there anything else you wanna share with us? Any last parting words of wisdom or anything else? I’ll link to the book in the show notes. I wanna encourage everyone to go and get your copy. And then if you love the book, please leave an Amazon review.

I know how important Amazon reviews are. So please do that for her if you love it, if you get value from it and do this for any book that you love. And [00:54:00] you’ve just reminded me, you know, I’ve read a couple of books recently and I’ve gotta go leave reviews for the ones that I love. I got, I have to do it.

And you also reminded me as you were speaking, I’ve recently worked with two amazing people, and I wanna give them video testimonials because again, video testimonials are so. I recently worked with a lactation consultant and I’m like, I haven’t done a Google review for her and I haven’t done a video testimonial for her, and I’m like, I’m doing it.

I’m gonna do it today because I get it. We’re full. We’re full. We’ve all got things to do. We’ve all got to do lists, we’ve all got things on. But that three my day, her. Like you said can go such a long way. So is there anything else you wanna share with us? 

Selina: Yeah, I think the final thing that I’ll say is that one rich relationship is more powerful than a hundred casual connection.

And so I just want everyone to really feel like they [00:55:00] can do this. This isn’t something that has to be overwhelming, it doesn’t have to take a lot of time. And the first step is really getting clear on what are those rich relationships that you wanna pour into. 

Melissa: So much I love, so I.

Invest in them. What are you gonna do? Are you gonna have a generosity fund? Are you gonna put reminders in your phone? Or if you use Clickup, whatever you use, like how are you gonna remember to invest? Because I know, especially when you’ve got kids, well, life is full. We’ve got a lot going on. So how can you remember to take three minutes out your day to give to somebody else or to give to three people, whatever it is, but how can you give, give, give, give, and be so generous?

Like you said in this interview and like you have done in this conversation, so I wanna personally [00:56:00] thank you and I wanna honor you for how generous you are and how much you serve and help people. Like I’ll get a random email from you and you’ll say something like, Melissa, I wanna introduce you to this person I think should be an amazing podcast guest.

That means so much. I.

And honor you for all the work that you do in the world. You’re helping, you’re serving, you’re supporting so many people. So how can I and the listeners give back and serve you today? 

Selina: Oh my goodness, that’s so kind. Well, you know, my biggest dream is that rich relationships is part of the vernacular. You know, if someone is struggling in business, right, that their friend or their coach says, well, who are your rich relationships?

Right? People are reminding people to, to pour into them. So. Well, I guess the number one thing would be to buy a copy of the book because I wrote this book for it to be in people’s hands and even more powerful when they read it and they implement it. [00:57:00] So that would be huge. If anyone feels inspired, if they want to leave an Amazon review, I mean, that would be, you know, extra amazing.

Because what happens is when you leave a review as, as you know, author Melissa. It’s like it creates that social proof and people are more likely to buy the book in the future because everyone else is endorsing that. And so, yeah, there are some things, like, there are some goals that you cannot achieve by yourself.

You have to actually lean on others to support you. So yeah, if people would feel inspired to buy a copy of the book on Amazon. And maybe even buy copies for their friends. You could form a book club. That would be amazing. Absolutely. We’ll link 

Melissa: to the book in the show notes, and they’re all such beautiful ideas.

So thank you. This has been so perfect, such beautiful reminders for not just in business but in life as. Well, the more you give, the more rich you are gonna feel from within. And that’s what we want. We wanna live a rich life, we wanna feel deeply fulfilled. And the more we give, the more we invest [00:58:00] into others, that is going to happen.

So thank you so much for this beautiful reminder. Thank you for being you. You’re always welcome on the show. I love having you in my life, so thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

I hope you got so much out of this conversation. I absolutely loved it and I am so excited to dive into her book now. If you got a lot out of this episode, please subscribe to the show. And if you haven’t already, leave me a review on Apple Podcast and email me hello at Melissa Emini, a screenshot of your review, and I will send you my wildly wealthy guided meditation.

And come and tell me on Instagram at Melissa Ambrosini, what you got from this episode. I would love to hear your biggest key takeaways, and I love connecting with you. Now, before I go, I just wanna say thank you so much for being here, for wanting to be the best, the healthiest, and the happiest version of yourself, and for showing up today for you.

You rock. [00:59:00] Now, if there’s someone in your life that you can think of that would really benefit from this episode, please share it with them right now. You can take a screenshot, share it on your social media, email it to them, text it to them, do whatever you’ve got to do to get this in their ears. And until next time, don’t forget that love is sexy.

Healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word.

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