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I used to really struggle with the word ‘abundance’. It felt self-righteous. Arrogant. And… well, not very ‘spiritual’. When I first started on my journey and heard people throwing it around left, right and centre, it made me squirm. But you know what? It was all my shit! I didn’t realise this at the time, but I had blocks around abundance and manifesting, which is why nothing was flowing and I wasn’t experiencing abundance in any area of my life. Back then, I couldn’t work out why my health wasn’t soaring, why my relationships weren’t overflowing, and why I could never get a break in my career or finances. Turns out, it was because I had blocks around abundance and manifesting.

My Mean Girl told me…

You don’t deserve X, Y and Z.

Abundance doesn’t happen to people like you.

Who do you think you are, trying to manifest this and that?

Get over yourself! You will never be overflowing in your health, wealth or love.

Then I mastered her and realised that I needed to get serious about manifesting what I desired in my life. But I started manifesting from a place of fear…

I must have perfect health because I am scared of getting sick again.

I want to heal from chronic fatigue because I am over feeling like crap.

I want to call in my life partner because I am tired of being alone.

I want to find my soul mate because I feel empty on my own, and I need someone outside myself to validate my worthiness and fill the void within me.

I want more money because I must get out of debt.

I want more clients because I need money to pay my bills.

I desperately want to find something that I’m passionate about, because my life currently sucks and there’s got to be more out there than this.

I was manifesting just like all the spiritual books and teachers told me to do… and nothing was happening. Absolutely nada. I was still unwell and unhappy, so I decided that all the manifesting hocus pocus I’d heard so much about simply mustn’t work.

That is, until I realised something massive: that I was manifesting from a place of fear. Instead of attracting in the things I desired from a place of love, I was trying to call in want I wanted while swimming in a puddle of fear… no wonder it wasn’t working! But I was serious about achieving abundance in all areas of my life, so I thought I may as well give this whole ‘manifesting from a place of love’ thing a go. So I did!

Instead of saying, ‘I must have perfect health because I am scared of getting sick again’, I changed it around to the present tense and started saying, ‘I am healthy, strong, energetic, vital and supplement free’.

Your words and thoughts are potent. What you say to yourself will manifest in your life.

Instead of saying, ‘I want to call in my life partner because I am sick of being alone’, I started saying, ‘I am whole and complete and ready to share my completeness with another beautiful being’.

Instead of saying, ‘I want more money because I must get out of debt’, I started saying, ‘I have complete financial freedom and money is a source of happiness for me’.

Instead of saying, ‘I want more clients because I need money to pay my bills’, I started saying, ‘Client’s flow to me with ease and grace’.

And instead of saying, ‘I desperately want to find something that I’m passionate about because my life currently sucks and there’s got to be more out there than this’, I started saying, ‘I am open to trying new things, feeling into what lights me up, and following my curiosity’.

When I first started saying these things, I didn’t fully believe them. My Mean Girl told me that it wasn’t going to work, but I knew that the only way to find out was to try. So off I went, manifesting from a place of love instead of fear, and unbeknownst to me…. it WORKED! I started manifesting abundance in my health, wealth and love. My health started to improve, clients were attracted to my work, the money began to flow, and my relationships were overflowing with love.

A word of warning… your Mean Girl will kick up a stink when you start making this shift from fear to love. But master her, shut the door on her doubts, and do it anyway. You can do it, sista!

Now I would love to hear from you: What is something you want to manifest in your life? Share with me in the comments below, but make sure you are manifesting from a place of love and not fear. And don’t forget, thousands of beautiful like-minded souls come here every day to get inspired, so open your heart and share from there. Your comment might be the one thing someone needs to read to spark massive action in their life.

As always, thank you so much for being here. I am deeply grateful and honoured I get to walk this path with you.

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  1. I want to manifest freedom. Freedom of mind, freedom of money and freedom of travel. I also want to manifest that my small, new, baby of a business will boom and allow me all of the above!

  2. Kim says:

    Melissa this has hit home like nothing else. I’ve struggled so much with ‘abundance’ in areas of my life this year – manifesting from fear I’ve now realised! Gosh you’re a gem x

  3. Nikki says:

    I needed to hear this today! I have been crippled with anxiety and fear this week, particularly around finances. All it has done is attract more moiety and fear! Im going to turn that around and channel love instead! Thank you for your gracious words Melissa, they always come at the right time xx

  4. Becky says:

    I want to manifest a healthy heart, both physically and spiritually. One that can support my life’s adventures (like my goal to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro next summer,) and also my desire to call in my life partner! I want to manifest financial stability and abundance so that I can explore life, help others, and freely give. I want to manifest my business so that I can spend every day both creating art that matters, and pouring into the lives of all I encounter.

    Thank you Melissa for this amazing re-wording guide – I am having so much fun writing in my daily notebook some dreams I have with the vibe of positive manifestation!


    • Lynda says:

      Becky and Melissa,

      I can’t tell you what your words have done to inspire and light up the truth! This has instantly healed and freed me from so much fear… synchronicity at it’s finest!

      Melissa, I only just discovered you today watching you and your sista Ashley Turner discussing your book Mastering your Inner Mean Girl which then led me to your web site. Thank you for seeing my Superpower as a Connector, it described me to a T. Something really hit me when you wrote, at the end of this article “And don’t forget, thousands of beautiful like-minded souls come here every day to get inspired, so open your heart and share from there. Your comment might be the one thing someone needs to read to spark massive action in their life.” and now I know why…

      Becky, Thank you for sharing the way you did! My 23 year old daughter is an amazing photographer, artist and jewelry maker, always has been, and on many occasions I told her that I would be her manager. She has suffered from depression for a long while, does not have the confidence or feeling of deservedness to take her work to the next level and doesn’t yet see herself as the beautiful, talented, caring, powerful, amazing woman she is. Well, after reading your comment I know what to do….promote and sell her amazing work. We’ve ‘joked’ about it for so long, with my other 2 daughters as well, dreaming about opening a gallery and what we would all do there together!

      I believe this will have a tremendous impact on her life, all our lives, as well as what she will learn about herself and life. It’s because of people like you who genuinely care and share from the heart. I have only recently started my healing journey at 53. Thank you and Bless you both!

  5. Alicia says:

    This post couldn’t have come at a better time. I’m doing the same thing as you were. Reading all the books and trying to learn to manifest abundance in my life. I feel like I’m poised on the tip of a wave and there’s about to be this rush of incredible goodness in my life, if only I can just master my mean girl and truly tap into the love I know I am.

    The fear has been strong these past few years. I’m also recovering from chronic fatigue, so my goodness, this post really spoke to me! You’ve helped me to realise how I’ve been trying to manifest in certain areas from a place of fear…so now I’m going to work harder on manifesting from a place of joy and love. It’s funny, there are moments where I feel so much joy and high vibration around certain things, but then others I just feel stuck!

    Most of all, I just want to have fun with it because I feel like that’s when I truly tap into the essence of me. The real me, not my mean girl. Thanks Melissa, you’ve nailed it again. I love your posts and am looking forward to coming to a goddess group in the near future!

    • Melissa says:

      Pleasure Alicia, super proud of you honey for showing and continuing to master your Mean Girl. You are amazing! Keep going angel.

  6. Jorja says:

    Hi Melissa,

    Thank you for this post. It came at a really great time for me!
    Last night I said would be the LAST time I drove home from work in tears because of stress and unhappiness. Today I will stop telling myself that my ‘hobbies’ and ‘interests’ will never earn me money and I will manifest that I deserve health and happiness.

    • Melissa says:

      Yes you do angel. You deserve all the health and happiness in the world. You just have to believe it first 😉

    • Justyna says:

      Hi Jorja,
      I can feel you! I felt exactly the same, on Monday I’ve handed in my resignation at work. Had enough of stress, working overtime. Even if it gave me financial stability during those 2 years it ruined my health, anxiety grew to panic attacks. I think now it’s high time I tell Mean Girl to shut the f*** up as she’s still saying I won’t pay bills from my hobby.
      Good luck to you Jorja!! xx

      • Jorja says:

        Thank you Melissa and thank you Justyna! I’m very happy for you! All the best, I’m sure your decision will work out.
        Jorja xo

  7. Karen says:

    Thanks Melissa! I can’t wait to read more x

    Here is my manifestation for this month: I have everything I need within me to run a successful business…. I am a caring coach and mentor, so I will attract the right people into my life & business at exactly the right time.

  8. Sam says:

    Great article! It has taken me so long to believe I am worthy of abundance in my life, particularly in the areas of work and finances. I once felt wanting to be wealthy was being arrogant which created feelings of unworthiness. I believe my thoughts have now shifted, and that I can create wealth doing what I enjoy. I am ready to recieve abundance in all areas of my life. Thanks Melissa xx

  9. Jamie Lynn says:

    I just started swimming lanes. I try to say an affirmation in my mind between each breath. It keeps my mind empty as it becomes almost like chanting. After my swim I am so energized and feel super positive. I will tighten up my afformations with these suggestions. Thank you.

  10. saf says:

    what do u mean”from place of love”….how does that happen ?

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Saf,

      Manifesting from love means manifesting from your heart, instead of manifesting from fear (your head) you choose to manifest from your heart space (which is your truth). Does that make sense?

  11. Kate says:

    My passion since I was a little girl was to be a successful actor in Australian film and tv. The burning desire has been with me longer than I can remember and every time I stepped away from performing, it literally screamed at me. Nawing at first, then into a full blown roar. Well I am finally taking the bull by the horns. Last month I quit my day job and my manifestations are around “fulfilling acting work flows to me with ease and grace”. The wording is based on your suggestions. Thank you for your inspiration.

  12. Bec says:

    I love this, the way you have written this piece makes so much sense to me and i now understand why i have been struggling with manifesting what i want. I even have a heart with the words love tattooed inside of it on my wrist so i can see it every day. I always say to myself do everything with love. I want to work for myself, from where ever i may be spreading light, love and magic doing what i love. Inspiring, uplifting and encouraging others through my art, words and photography.

    I love your book ‘Mastering Your Mean Girl’, it’s awesome!

    Love & Gratitude,

    Bec xx

  13. Lauren says:

    I want to manifest our very first baby for my husband and I! I’ve dreamt of being a mother my whole life, and now is the absolute perfect time in our lives for our family to expand!

  14. Carly says:

    Proud to have you as a fellow human sharing these messages of greater good. So lovely to see. Good on YOU for sharing these beautiful thoughts for all to benefit. Xx

  15. Rebecca says:

    I’ve been trying to manifest certain things for what feels like forever and now, reading this I realise I was using fear not love. I’m going to give your advice a go. Thank you xx

  16. Renee says:

    Melissa, you are amazing! I want to manifest an abundant business of helping people become healthy! I’m mastering my mean girl every day and it is work. But so worth the effort!!

    Thanks so much for being you and sharing with all of us beautiful sisters in the world!!

  17. Tracey says:

    Thank you

  18. Sam says:

    Thank you so much for these words of wisdom; I was totally vibing with this post today and think it was exactly what I needed to hear! In the midst of grad school applications right now, it’s easy to look around and feel the not-good-enoughs. This was a great reminder to embrace how much I have accomplished and let that guide me to an acceptance letter!

  19. Kate says:

    I will be a beautiful mum from a healthy and happy Boy and I live within a peaceful and safe and safe family.

  20. Megane says:

    Hi Melissa !

    Thank you for this great post !

    I have a question about affirmations. Do you have some exercices or tips about how to use them daily ? I’ve heard a lot about affirmations and mantras, but I’m kind of “lost” about how to use them in my life.
    It would be great to have some of your advices 🙂

    Thank you by advance and thank you again for this great work that you give us each week ! 🙂

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Megane,

      Have you read my book Mastering Your Mean Girl yet? I give you loads of affirmations in there that you can use daily. The best way to start using affirmations is to pick something that resonates and lights you up. Then you say it daily, over and over again whenever your Mean Girl pops up.You can also put it all around your house and as reminders in your phone to help remind you. Check out my book, I have loads of other tips and tricks in there for you 😉

  21. Gina says:

    I am so happy I read this! I have totally been manifesting from fear without even realizing. My mental and physical health are very poor right now as I am just starting the practice of mastering my mean girl. I now know and understand that my thoughts are so strong and if I use them out of love, I will be able to be the vibrant person I used to be. I can not wait to become my whole self. Thank Melissa!

  22. iNiva says:

    I want to manifest a hear to heart conversation with my twin flame. Please help me to rephrase that from the place of love instead of fear. Thank you in advance

    • Melissa says:

      Hey honey,

      I would say something like, ‘I communicate openly and with love in all my interactions.’ Does that feel true for you? It’s important that it resonates with you. If not, find words that do honey. That’s the best way to manifest your desires.

      I hope that helps.


  23. Mignoon says:

    Hi Melissa!

    Thank you for sharing this article. That saved my life a tons… I was caught up by manifesting out of a fear just like you did. But you just taught me to built my life around a love. Then I started appreciating the life around me and the world is looking nicer. Have a great day ahead.

  24. Andrea says:

    I want to manifest forgiveness. Forgiveness of both myself and particular others, but I have no idea how to do this from a place of love. I am afraid to forgive both, which I know means that I won’t actually manifest the forgiveness I so desperately seek, want and crave…

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Andrea,

      Have you read the chapter in Mastering Your Mean Girl about forgiveness? I think that will help you loads. Have a read and let me know if you have any questions 😉


  25. Tam says:

    This same shift happened to me. I focused on feeling good about what I already had whilst affirming what I wanted and it started to unfold into a situation I had only dreamed of months before. Great advice and it works <3

  26. Yasmin says:

    I am filled with free flying abundance, creative work and people are drawn to me as I live a life I ever dreamed about. I am glowing with health, strength and LOVE. I am financially capable and free of worry. I am love. I am light.

  27. Hayley says:

    Hi Melissa,
    I have commented on Amazon before about how reading your book mastering your mean girl changed my life. A friend brought me to your book launch in February this year and I purchased your book from the event and your meditations. And I am not kidding – every single thing I have ever wanted in my life has come true since then. I meditated everyday without fail for 3 months (less frequently now – but still love to) The universe listened to me and has practically handed all of my dreams to me on a platter – right down to a new marketing business where clients are in the waiting list to use my services! I have quadrupled my income in 6 months and ideas and ways of improving my service and value for my clients come to me with ease. Plus I now drive a BMW and have moved to a brand new 6 bedroom home in a beautiful suburb with my beautiful big family of 5 children. I know this all seems about money, but it’s not, it’s about how I now value myself. I came from a place of constant fear and negative self talk and used some hardships that previously happened in my life as excuses to hold back – I was a poor me person. NOT ANYMORE! Now I am an “i can do what ever I want person and I will find a way person”. I feel successful. But if I think about the rapid mental shift that occurred within me – the pivotal moment was seeing you present and reading your book. My life will always be up and down (as life is for everyone) but my core view of it has permanently changed so Thankyou for what you do. And anyone thinking about manifesting using Melissa’s techniques – it works. God bless you from Hayley Jane Marketing xxx

    • Melissa says:

      Oh honey, this gave me full body goosebumps. I am beyond proud of you angel. Keep up the awesome work. You got this!

  28. Gaby says:

    I want to manifest a soul mate, a partner. This blog really help me switch my prospective, I’ve been trying to manifest this by asking the universe out of fear, instead of coming from a place of love. Like you said I’m whole and I’m ready to share all my happiness with that special someone.

  29. Erin says:

    I am the architect of my life; I build its foundation and choose its contents!

    This is one of my daily mantras and it has helped me to realize that I am in control of my life. Life doesn’t just happen to us! We get to choose!

  30. Luba says:

    Thank you for this message! I was in definite need of hearing that today 🙂
    I have just started a new business and of course at the start you question you purpose and worth, and if it will even pan out and work and bring prosperity.
    I want to manifest confidence, abundance, freedom and love.
    I am confident in my worth, knowledge and genuine passion to help other, I trust that the right clients will flow my way in thier perfect time.
    I have the freedom to do and help and creat anything I want and I am proud of my work and dedication. Lastly I am sending love to anyone and all who need it. <3

  31. Gemma says:

    I want to manifest abudance in my career. I feel like I’m constantly chasing down opportunities like a hound dog and they are slipping through my fingers. My desperation feels palpable and it feels like it’s driving opportunities away. I’m an actor and I’ve been taught to live in a place of fear – you won’t work unless you’re hungry too – but I know there’s got to be something more.

    • Melissa says:

      Oh there is angel. Do it because you love it, let go of the fear and trust that the perfect role will present its self to you always.

  32. Richelle says:

    Hi Melissa!
    Love this blog post – thanks for sharing.
    I have a manifesting question for you or any of your lovely followers who might be able to help.
    I wanted to know what people’s thoughts are on asking the universe for signs. The reason being I asked the universe for a sign if I should take a specific direction with my career and I got a big fat ‘no’ and I was sure the answer would be yes! So now I don’t know what to do ….
    Is it bad karma if I do it anyway? I really felt like it was the way forward but really wanted confirmation or reassurance.
    Would love any advice!
    Richelle xx

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Richelle,

      I sometimes ask for signs but I mostly ask myself. I sit in meditation and ask my higher self for guidance. Give that a go sweetie and let me know how you go.

  33. Sarah Hopkins says:

    Hi Mellissa

    After reading this and your book I can see how my driver has been fear for such a very long time …

    That is about to change, hell it’s started to change already … my daily journal is filling up with fear statements so easily it is unreal … but slowly I’m converting them, driven this time by love and compassion. I was so uncomfortable at first, it felt like I was undeserving or bragging even. I’m becoming more grateful for what I have, not seeing it as a bad thing so much. I think I could get used to this abundance, it such a beautiful place to be …

    Thank you so much for your explanation and example’s!

  34. Rachael says:

    Hi Melissa

    I’ve just stumbled upon your delightful blog after researching IIN and searching other Aussies who have studies through them. Please, had you studied Nutrition or such beforehand? I love this blog… LOVE HEALS I feel as though I have finally just recently found exactly what I want to study and do! Xx

  35. Tasmere says:

    I am in the process of listening to your audiobook and I came to this site to locate the worthiness meditation however I found something better than I could even imagine. All these self help books tell you to focus on your passion but my problem was I didn’t know what it was. I would see others and think things like “they are so lucky to know exactly what makes their heart light up, if I ever find that I’m going to hold on to it and never let it go” but as soon as I came on your website it asked if I wanted to take a quiz so I did. It helped me realize that my true calling is connecting to people, I’ve always know I feel alive when I’m telling stories or just talking and bonding with people but never considered it a skill. I’m so excited to explore my new superpower and I look forward to learning as much as I can from the book. P.s. I never did find that meditation guide haha

  36. Hi Melissa,

    Was searching the incredible truthtellers I’m honored to be featured alongside on Women For 1 and stumbled upon your bio and then got lost in your website. The fact that I stumbled upon your inspirational site and this specific blog post was surely guided by the universe. I was doing my best to manifest what I wanted but feeling “Woe is me. Why am I still unable to reach my dreams? I must be destined to be financially strapped, professionally unfulfilled, and unlucky in love.” Then I see this post. Ding, ding, ding! I have been totally manifesting from fear!! I’m going to spend the day rewriting my dreams. Abundance was my word for 2017 and it’s going to be pretty darn hard to reach if all I hear in the background is “fear” and “lack.” You, my dear, have helped another human being, miles and miles away, shift in a way that WILL bring huge impact to this world.

  37. Deborah says:

    Thank you Melissa, I needed to hear this, as I had allowed such negativity to bombard my mind recently. So I am replacing some of those negative voices with the following:

    Grace is flowing in abundance to me, and I’m whole and complete and ready to share this amazing journey with the man of my dreams.

    In terms of my path/career I’m following my curiosity, and believing as I step the path is becoming clearer and abundant overflowing in blessing to others.

  38. Gina Prentiss says:

    I had to come back and re-read this. Finding out I am being laid off at work has put me in a huge state of anxiety. I feel like I need to find a job ASAP and I am just rushing around to find anything. However, in reality, I want to be happy with a new career. This is extremely difficult.

  39. Lauren says:

    This resonates with me so much Melissa, I’m so inspired by what you have accomplished and I want to manifest a similar business for myself here in England but I also feel intimidated and clueless as to where to start! I know it’s my Mean Girl and I need to work on her but what advice would you give to a 27 year old girl wanting to get started?
    Love and light,
    Lauren xox

  40. Lauren says:

    This resonates with me so much Melissa, I’m so inspired by what you have accomplished and I want to manifest a similar business for myself here in England but I also feel intimidated and clueless as to where to start! I know it’s my Mean Girl and I need to work on her but what advice would you give to a 27 year old girl wanting to get started? I am working on conquering my mind so I can help others do the same and achieve greatness.

    Love and light,
    Lauren xox

  41. Liz says:

    I needed to hear this! I want abundance in my life, and living in a small town, it at times feels very very impossible. I know deep down it is… so thank you for these words.

  42. Karlyn says:

    I want to manifest and harvest happiness joy and money in my life so I can be happy. I want to share my life and love with someone special.

    • Hey Karlyn, work on inner happiness and joy first! That’s always the best place to start. Looking to money to make me happy was a big challenge I faced. It wasn’t until I realized I needed to find happiness from within that my life changed. xx

      • Karlyn says:

        I completely agree with you I’m struggling with this daily but after meditation and prayer I’m finding out I have no self doubt anymore I’m confident and secure in myself.

  43. Andrea says:

    I am manifesting the power to help others by lifting them up and bring the community together. My husband and I are starting an art magazine in our town so as to show the community what this amazing place is really made of. In doing so, we want to unify the creative community and demystify art for others by showing them it’s a natural part of the human spirit and is ever present. My mean girl has been trying to voice her opinion by making me doubt our ability to finance the publication with ad sales. She has also tried to convince me that as a newbie in this town it will be too hard to get the support we need. I fight the urge to compare myself and our project to others while instead putting my energy into learning about the brilliant people I call my neighbors. I’m trusting that my passion is coming through to everyone I meet! I am running headlong into finding out what I and the magazine can do for others. Regardless of limited funds during this first issue (always the hardest), we are sponsoring several non profits and community activities through trade and other arrangements and we are focusing on our love for this community. I can feel something big and beautiful is happening, and I work at letting go of the fact that I cannot see how it will unfold. I may not be able to paint the whole picture for myself right now, but I trust that the canvas is attracting the colors and design it’s meant for and the picture will reveal itself soon enough. Melissa, you and others like you help me to put these things into perspective. I learned that I can awknowledge fear without swimming in it by giving fear a face, inviting it to sit with me (and even share a cup off tea), and finally embrace it with a hug, sending my fear all the love and light it deserves. This visualization helps makes releasing fear more tangible. Thank you for the opportunity to recognize things like this.

  44. Kristina Mitenkova says:

    Hey! I am 22 and have never had a boyfriend. I have never shared love with anyone and it has been getting worse every year in terms of how I felt about it. Sometimes I would feel stroken with fear of never finding a soulmate. Because if it hasn’t happened yet where is the guarantee that it will happen like ever? And everything I ever manifested in my life so far became my reality – I moved to Denmark, got into med-school, I started teaching yoga, I found friends, my finances are on top for student standards. Everything, all my wishes keep coming true, except for the biggest one: finding true love, my soulmate! And after reading this post I understand that I was manifesting from fear – because I want others to see me with a boyfriend, because I’m afraid of being alone, because I feel the lack of it. Thank you, Melissa, for reminding me once again what it means to live from a place of love and not fear. Now my personal growth mission is to let go of my fear, let love take the lead and start manifesting right. Because, as you said: might as well give it a go 😉

  45. P says:

    So in order to manifest you must simply focus on feeling good and happy from the heart as your speaking what you want in present tense ( which what you affirm to yourself must be truth for you, that you have whatever you want?) ??

    • The key to manifesting is the place in which you are manifesting from, are you manifesting from your head or heart? Also, when you are manifesting you need to feel it in your bones. Tap into the feeling of the thing you are wanting to call in and fully embody it as though you already have it. Becuase you do! You have everything already within you, always!

  46. Liz says:

    Hi Melissa, Right now I’m intending to manifest a truck. I know I can do it because I’ve done it before. Actually I’ve manifested 5 other vehicles in the past! However none of them were “new. And I’m getting stumped on this 1 with waiting for it to come in for over 1 year now. How can I allow myself to receive a nice shiny NEW truck instead of an old beater 1?

    • Feel what it feels like to have that shiny new truck. Act ‘as if’ you already have it. Feel into what it feels like to own that shiny new truck and take inspired action every single day to make that manifest. Ask yourself what is one action step I can take today to make that manifest? Then go do that! I hope that helps honey. xx

  47. Gurpal Kainth says:

    hi Melissa
    I have been trying to manifest particular properties wins that earn at least over $150 k pa income and have been doing it religiously for like over 18 months nows.
    But still i feel it does not seem to work.
    Can you please advise

    • Hey Gurpal, I have found that when this happens for me either it’s not true for me or I don’t fully believe I am worthy of it. Tune in and ask yourself why this has not manifested for you yet and be really honest with yourself. The answers are always within. Does that all make sense?

  48. Katie says:

    I’d love to have a home with my loving partner in the town we love. It would be so wonderful waking up every morning in a place of your own!

  49. Tattiana Johnson says:

    I want to manifest a life of abundance in all areas, so that I can give to myself and others, and show my family that happiness can be obtained no matter where you start from. I want to have a healthy love life with someone who appreciates me as much as I do, and I want to travel the world and experience things that I could not even dream of. I want to draw in generous clients that feel genuinely satisfied with my company and services, and whom in turn contribute to a positive cycle where we both benefit. I want to change my life for the better so significantly, that I don’t even recognize the negative person I used to be. I want to dance.

  50. Sue says:

    I feel I have been focusing on my visions and manifesting love into my life but honestly nothing. I seriously do have a wonderful life and one I am very grateful for but it just isn’t happening. Ohh and it’s been about 2 years.

    • Hey Sue, have you read Open Wide yet? I believe if you want to manifest something into your life you have to feel it and know that you already have that love within you and that you don’t need someone else to make you feel that love and then take inspired action like going on dates, putting yourself in the situations where you could meet people. Make sense honey?

  51. Woogena says:

    I want to manifest my and my spouses finances line up so we can rebuild, sell our home and move to another state where we can then live in our forever home,I want to manifest our oldest child will continue to get better and she will keep her job and return to working full time. But mostly I want to manifest my happiness and find the real root of my pain and unhappiness. I want to manifest joy and comfort and hope in all I meet at my job as a Cashier. I want to manifest I will be able to choose from the jobs I’m applying for so all of the things I’ve mentioned can come to fruition!

  52. connie nesci says:

    hi there im going to try it i have been trying to manifest buying a busness for a while now and i in a bit of a rute no thanks too me i work im a single mother and i have tried to manifesdt but dosent work i think your way will work

    • That’s so exciting honey. What type of business do you want to buy? Have you got super clear on that? I have found in the past when I wasn’t super clear I didn’t manifest what I wanted, but as soon as I got super clear it would manifest. Just like magic! Let me know how you go. xx

  53. Chantal says:

    First off – Thank you, Melissa!!!

    I am so so glad to read this article after I just finished your Manifest your Deepest Desires meditation – which I had the most DELICIOUS visualization where it actually made me smile! I was getting INSANELY frustrated and almost burned out with figuring out which method of manifesting to use. I listened to your podcast with Lacy Phillips and it’s crazy with all the conflicting advice on the best way to manifest. How do you know who to follow?! Reading this article helped calm me and just go back to what matters most – self love.

    I’m currently manifesting more money to be financially free to have plenty to spare and share, a purchased dream condo in Toronto where I can have my golden retriever and a delicious and fulfilling relationship with my boyfriend (either him or someone better for me). I’d also love to be a self love coach to help other people on their journey since I’ve overcome a lot of trauma in my life.

    I’ve read mastering your mean girl multiple times, just bought your course and your meditations.

    Thank you for all you do, Melissa 🙂

    • You’re so welcome Chantal. There is a lot of information out there but you must always come back to what feels true for you. Also, I wanted to let you know that one of the business my hubby and I have helps people create financial and location freedom, click here if you are interested to learn more and to have us help you achieve that. xx

  54. Mona Loot says:

    Every single word of this post resonated with me. I was in the exact same situation. For years, I was asking from fear. I read every book. Watched all of the videos. And nothing. It is so strange (or is it?) that after signing up to https://cutt.ly/manimagic I arrived here. Thanks for a wonderful post.

  55. Tracey lowe says:

    I want complete financial freedom
    The means to travel freely whenever and wherever I want . Never worry about money again

  56. Grace Ciffo says:

    Your advice and perspective is SO VERY helpful to me. This clicks for me right now. I am open to manifesting from a place of love, I just haven’t understood clearly about how that looks and the difference between manifesting from a place of fear versus a place of love. Off I go in a better direction now… Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  57. Denise says:

    I know everything there is to know about manifesting, but I can’t make my heart feel anything else other than fear. I do affirmations I listen to like minded people I do understand the concept but I can’t change my emotions. I have been struggling for a while. Help!

    • Hi Denise, I feel you honey but please be aware of your dialogue, you CAN change your emotions, you CAN do anything you heart desires angel. Start saying you CAN and stop telling yourself you can’t and please know you CAN CAN CAN. Have you read Mastering Your Mean Girl yet honey? I feel like that will be very supportive for you right now. Have a read and let me know what you think. xx

  58. Tahnee Smith says:

    I am manifesting money to purchase a house

  59. Vaish says:

    Thank you for sharing ur kindly words.I m manifesting my parents to be healthy and happy all the time.I m manifesting my dream life with my best friend with my parents support and blessings. Sometimes I m getting so many positive signs from universe and sometimes things gets so worst and now I m facing so many challenges and I believe that the universe is testing me .I m manifesting my dream music career and a good grade in my CA exams and so many intentions .
    I m in a most crucial phase in my life and crying inside without showing anyone and having a really heavy heart .Alongwith this have a gut feeling that everything is happening in my favor and these are all blessings in disguise .Universe always has our back.

  60. Milad says:

    i loved every bit of this. I’ve been manifesting from a place of fear too. that moment when i read it, and it clicked, what an experience. Thank you Melissa.

  61. Lucy says:

    Realizing about the money block is something that I just started,I was desperate before because I thought I was doing the right thing with no results to show , betso I was manifesting from a point of desperation ,the sense of lack , getting the little girl in you to heal from the negative beliefs is the start but not easy although must conquer, instead of the thought that I desperately want a specific amount of money within a specific period,am now certain I have complete financial freedom and money is a source of happiness for me’. With money I can satisfy my needs and help someone needy and make a difference in their Life

  62. Chris Jennings says:

    If you tell yourself for example I have complete financial freedom, or I am strong and healthy you do nothing but set up conflict and anger, because your mind knows that you are lying. This is why those sorts of statements/ affirmations will lock you into despair and prevent you ever manifesting.

  63. Laurie Brown says:

    This is more of a question. How do you manifest from a place of love? Is this the same as self love or do you have something else in mind?

    • You can manifest from a place of love or place of fear honey. One feels expansive and one makes you contract. Tune in to the feeling honey and make sure when you are manifesting it feels expansive. Does that make sense honey?

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