"You can’t write a book. Who do you think you are, Stephen King or something? Don’t you remember? Mrs Bowman from Year Two called you stupid. Just spare yourself the pain and heartache — no one is going to read it, let alone buy it; no one cares what you have to say. It’s going to be a flop. Stop now before you humiliate yourself."
Meet my Mean Girl.
As I sat down to write my book, Mastering Your Mean Girl, with a blank white page staring me in the face, she reared her head with lightning speed, planting seeds of doubt and fear in my mind. In the past, it would have been enough to stop me in my tracks. To send me sprinting back quick smart to my comfort zone with a soothing chocolate bar and a glass of wine in hand. But because I now know the truth about her sneaky little games, I was able to take a different approach. Instead, I gently closed the door on her and returned to my truth — getting the words and my story down on paper so I could share them with you.
You’ve heard me talk about your ‘Mean Girl’ before — it’s that fear-based voice inside your head that whispers you're not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, skinny enough, fast enough, whatever enough. No matter who you are and where you come from, we all have one. And for years I let her run the show, but after a very spectacular encounter with rock bottom, I learned how to master her and become wildly wealthy, fabulously healthy and bursting with love. And now I want to help you do the same by sharing exactly how I did it.
Enter my epic book Mastering Your Mean Girl which I am literally bursting at the seams to tell you about. I have poured my heart and soul into this baby, and experienced many vulnerability hangovers in the process. But I am so proud to give you a sneak peek into my story and my book today.
It has been a dream of mine to become a published author and I am so excited to FINALLY share this with you (my beautiful tribe) today. Pinch me! It’s so surreal when you have been working on something for years and you get to finally birth it into the world. And being a type A personality it’s easy to skim over it and swiftly move on to the next project, but today I am going to take a few moments to sit and be still. I am going to acknowledge myself for achieving this massive goal I wanted to achieve.
I wrote this book for you, my darling, so you too can live your wildest dreams. I believe women everywhere need to read this book and learn how to master their Mean Girl. I set out to write the kind of book that I wish someone had given me — it would've saved me a lot of tears and heartache! But if I’m being honest, I wouldn't change a thing about my journey — it’s given me the greatest lessons of my life, and allowed me to live my passion and purpose every single day.
My mission on this earth is to inspire and support women, and this was my utmost intention I had whilst writing every word. My wish is for all women to realize how truly magnificent they really are, to own their worth, to step up and to live the life their soul desires… and Mastering Your Mean Girl will help you do exactly that.