(Listen & Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart or TuneIn)

Some conversations crack your heart open in the best way. This one did exactly that. Today I sit down with spirit baby psychic medium Emily Greene for a deep, grounded, soulful journey into intuition, conception, communication with spirit babies, and the unseen world that so many women feel but can’t quite name.

Emily has supported thousands of families across the globe. Her work is tender, precise, and surprisingly practical. And in this episode she shares how she first discovered the spirit baby realm, how these souls communicate, why intuition is our birthright, and what parents can do to help their children stay connected to their inner knowing.

We also explore miscarriage through the lens of the soul’s journey, how spirit babies choose their path, and whether they can share details like their name, timing, or the way they hope to come through. If you’ve ever felt a whisper, a nudge, a presence, or a sense that a baby is around you, this conversation will feel like home.

Inside, you’ll also hear a piece of my own story—how I found spirit baby psychics years ago, and how that guidance shaped my path into motherhood.

Settle in. This is a heart-expanding one.

About Emily Greene

Emily Greene is a gifted spirit baby medium, psychic, intuitive, and spiritual guide who supports families around the world as they move through conception, pregnancy, loss, and early parenthood. Her work blends intuition, compassion, and grounded spiritual insight to help parents understand the soul of their child long before they arrive. Known for her clarity and heart-centred approach, Emily’s mission is to help families feel supported, empowered, and deeply connected throughout their journey.

In this episode we chat about:

• How Emily first stepped onto her intuitive, psychic path and the moment she recognised the spirit baby world (3:06)
• The story behind her entry into spirit baby communication and the experiences that confirmed it (7:25)
• The difference between psychic mediumship and spirit baby mediumship, and why it matters (11:42)
• Are we all psychic? (14:16)
• How to strengthen intuition in our children in simple, grounded ways (15:36)
• Practical steps adults can use to rebuild their intuitive muscles (23:32)
• My own story discovering the spirit baby world (32:41)
• How spirit babies communicate with Emily and what those conversations feel like (36:12)
• Whether spirit babies can share preferences about their conception or birth journey (44:25)
• Can spirit babies give signs of the name they want (48:04)
• A loving and expanded perspective on miscarriage and the soul’s sacred timing (56:33)
• Where spirit babies are between lifetimes and whether they are “waiting” for us (62:41)

Episode resources:

• Mastering Your Mean Girl by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Open Wide by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Comparisonitis by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Time Magic by Melissa Ambrosini and Nick Broadhurst (book)
• Emily Greene (website)
• Emily Greene (Instagram)
• The Cosmic Womb with Emily the Medium (podcast)
• A Cosmic Bond: Communicating with your Spirit Babies from Preconception to Birth by Emily Greene (book)
• Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives by Brian L. Weiss (book)

Prefer To Read?

The following transcript has been automatically generated and not checked for accuracy.

Melissa: [00:00:00] The Melissa Ambrosini Show. Welcome to the Melissa Ambrosini Show. I’m your host, Melissa bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, open, wide, comparisonitis and Time Magic. And I’m here to remind you that love is sexy, healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word. Each week I’ll be getting up close and personal with thought leaders from around the globe, as well as your weekly dose of motivation so that you can create epic change in your own life and become the best version of yourself possible.

Are you ready? Beautiful. Beautiful. Hey, beautiful. Welcome back to the show. I’m so excited about this episode because I truly believe that we all have psychic abilities, and for those of you that have never heard of Emily Green, she’s known as Emily the Medium, and she’s a highly acclaimed psychic medium who’s.

Specializes in supporting families to connect with the energies of their children or their spirit babies [00:01:00] at all phases of their journey. Whether they are struggling with fertility challenges in the preconception phase after a miscarriage or a stillbirth, or while they are pregnant. And in addition, Emily also supports families in raising their sensitive children and helping them to acclimate to earth, as well as helping individuals understand and master their innate intuitive abilities.

And I truly believe that if we all just stopped, slowed down and really tuned in. We could all harness our intuitive psychic abilities so much more. But there is so much noise. But it’s time. It is time for us to quieten the outside noise and go within and really trust and listen to our own inner voice and be guided by that.

We’re gonna talk so much more about that in this episode. But for everything that we mention in today’s episode, you can check out in the show notes, and that’s over@melissaambrosini.com [00:02:00] slash 6 8 0. Now let’s dive in. Let’s bring on the incredible Emily, the medium.

Emily, welcome to the show. I’m so excited to have you here. But before we dive in, can you tell us what you had for breakfast this morning? 

Emily: Oh yes. It’s funny, my husband and I were just talking about this this morning. We were like, I think I wanna change my breakfast. And anyway I do. This morning I had Greek yogurt with cheese seeds and hemp seeds, walnuts, fresh berries, and a little bit of honey and some nose to tail breakfast sausages as well.

It was so good. And you are 

Melissa: in Canada, Toronto? I am, yes, yes, yes, I am. Other side of the world. It’s just amazing. I’m just blown away by that. It is. I mean, it’s amazing. I’m in the past. You’re in the future. Speaking of past and future, I am [00:03:00] so pumped for this conversation. You are a psychic medium and a spirit baby medium.

Before we talk about what that actually is, can you tell us your story? How did you get into this work? Yeah, 

Emily: absolutely. So I always say. It kind of starts when I was a child because I was like the quintessential kind of sensitive kid who was always feeling things and knowing things, and I didn’t sleep for the first 10 years of my life.

Melissa: What do you mean you didn’t sleep for the first 10 years? Your mother must have been like, what? Oh yes, she was. Yes. 

Emily: I had chronic insomnia and like literally would sleep like maybe two, three hours a night for my entire childhood. How is your mom, you catching up on all of her sleep now still 30 years later?

Melissa: Because I have two little kids and if they didn’t sleep for the first 10 years of their life, I would probably have a whole head of gray hair. 

Emily: I know, I really feel for her now because how much I value [00:04:00] sleep, my sleep and how particular I am about sleep now. I sleep great now I sleep like I sleep great now.

But it was a struggle for a long time and, and knowing and looking back now, you know, so much of that was, I was just feeling so many things and having like these really intense, vivid dreams that I didn’t know how to make sense of. And then the next day, the dreams that I had would come true. And I was just kind of like trying to.

Make sense of who I was, what was happening to me. And so long story short, I couldn’t, at that time I couldn’t understand what this was or why I was feeling the way that I was, seeing the things I was seeing. And so I really shut it down and I say like, I had 10 years of just, you know, teenage everything, where I kind of just really lived very in the physical world and kind of ignored the fact that I was this very sensitive person, very perceptive person and around.

What the time when I was 18, I kind [00:05:00] of had this, I guess you could call it a spiritual awakening or reawakening in, in, in a way where I had this dream and I was shown these two paths and it was like, you can go down this path and it’s the conventional path and you can do what everybody else is doing and you can, you know, follow what all your friends are going to do, but you, you won’t be happy and it just is not gonna be a good a, the most ideal path for you.

Or they showed me, you know, in the stream I was shown this other path, which is very similar to the work that I’m doing now. I saw myself sitting down with people and chi, working with mothers and children and to, you know, together, but also individually. And I had no idea how to make sense of this. I didn’t know.

Like what this meant or what even to do with this information. And so I kind of just started by putting one front foot in front of the other and listening, starting to cultivate a relationship again with my intuition. And where that led me is I took a few detours, but eventually where that led me is to finding my first mentor [00:06:00] who essentially, you know, I took, I sat down in front of her, she took one look at me and said, okay, honey, like we got some work to do.

You have repressed a lot of your stuff and we’re gonna work. We’re gonna sort you out. And that’s exactly what we did. You know, she really helped me sort of make sense of my. Experiences as a very intuitive child and person, and then kind of figure out how my senses, my intuitive senses or my perception actually worked.

And once I had that, I felt like I could do anything. It was like, oh, well this is, this is what it feels like to be fully in my intuitive power. And you know, in the beginning I was just kind of dipping my toes in sampling, figuring out what felt good, working with different people across the world. The amazing thing is like, it just started to, I didn’t really do anything and people just started finding me and they started saying, I need your help.

And this is, I’ve, I found your name, or just impossible. Like, I wasn’t even at that time, this was, you know, in 2014. And [00:07:00] so I wasn’t on social media. Social media was kind of like just picking up around that time and people would just find me. And so it evolved, you know, the, the, the work has evolved over the years.

I’ve done all kinds of different forms of healing work and intuitive service work. Eventually found my way to what I would call my spirit baby work, which is a whole other story. So I’ll just pause there before I get into that. 

Melissa: I love it so much. It’s so beautiful. So now you do spirit baby medium work, and you also do psychic medium.

Can you tell us how you got into the spirit, baby stuff? 

Emily: Absolutely. So there’s kind of a defining story. There’s a defining moment as with anything. But you know, you can kind of look back and go, oh, that was, that was the moment that everything sort of opened up. And for me that was just an average day. I was working with a new client who had found her way to meet, I have no idea how.

And she came in and she just said she was looking for clarity. And I said, great, let’s see what we can do. And [00:08:00] so I did my thing at the beginning. I took a few steps back and I, as I kind of tuned in in my inner vision, I started seeing this little girl. And I can still picture her perfectly, her hair, her dress, her shoes, like even the color of the shoes and the socks that she had on so, so detailed.

So I guess so just as sharp today as it was almost 10 years ago. And. So I started describing this little, I’m hoping that this woman would understand who this girl was. I started describing her to this woman that was in front of me, and she was confused. She didn’t know what I was talking about. And so then I had to do some detective work.

And long story short, I went back to the, this, this presentation of this girl I was seeing in my inner vision. And she said, I’m her daughter, and, and she’ll know what you mean if you say that. And so I said, she’s saying that she’s your daughter. And I was a little confused at the time thinking, well, wouldn’t she know if she had, if, if there was a daughter that was no longer physically here?

And anyway, long story short, she said [00:09:00] that she had had a miscarriage six months ago. And she’d always, she didn’t have the confirmation, but she felt it was a girl. And not only that, but her husband and her were still trying to conceive, and that’s kind of what she was hoping for clarity on. And so that was the beginning.

And in that, in that hour with that woman who has changed everything and opened my perspective so much, we just worked with this little girl and she was so loving and brought so much healing to her mom and so much peace to her heart. And she said, you know, I can’t come back to you in, in, in a, my soul can’t come back to you this time, but I’ll be sending someone else.

And three months later, she was pregnant with, I know so many goosebumps. It still gives me goosebumps. She, three months later, she was pregnant with, with a boy, with her, her second son. I’ve got full goosebumps. I know, I know. So, and that was, to me, that was so new, like completely new information. I didn’t even know.

What I’ll say is like, as I was working with people in, in, in [00:10:00] an, in their ancestors in different settings, you know, I would see ancestors holding babies as a reference to a baby loss or a miscarriage or an infant loss. But I wasn’t actually ever able to talk to those babies. I was just talking to the, the ancestors that were connecting to them.

And so to get to talk to this girl. In, in a way that kind of came in through the back door where I wasn’t expecting. It was so amazing. And then the most, the amazing thing that happened after that is that in every session that I would sit down with somebody, I thought, oh, maybe it was just one time thing.

You know? I was like, oh, it was just a, it was just a fluke. It was what that woman needed it. But in every session from that point forward, and it hasn’t stopped since the floodgates opened in that one moment, they were all baby souls. They were all spirit babies. They were all the souls of people’s children that they were had had either lost or had been connecting to.

And the floodgates, just so even in situations where. You know, I was talking to a 60-year-old woman who had a, a pregnancy [00:11:00] loss 40 years earlier and these sorts of things that you would just never think, oh wow, this would show up here. So that’s how it all began and it’s definitely evolved since then.

But that was kind of the, the starting moment that that opened up this, this work for me and to me and in hindsight it makes a lot of sense. I mean, I was always obsessed with children and I was babysitting from the time I was 10 years old and, you know, being, I was a mother’s helper for so many different mothers and my community, my mom was a teacher and so they all had little kids and I was always the one that was like, I’ll help.

I’ll come to your house and like watch baby while you nap. And it was just the best thing. I loved it. And anyway, so that’s how it all began. 

Melissa: Wow. Okay. So what’s the difference between the psychic medium work and the spirit baby Medium work? 

Emily: Great question. I think that in. The focus of when I’m working with spirit babies, usually what that looks like is I’m strictly communicating with the [00:12:00] soul souls of children, past, present, future.

So that’s usually how I put it. So this is children who, again, who have potentially not, not made it earth side all, all the way, whether that’s through still birth, a miscarriage or termination, that’s children who are presently sort of in utero for, for the, the, the, the mother in question. So you’re able to communicate with babies in utero.

It’s the best thing ever. We can talk more about it. And then also future. So this is, you know, children who are sort of in the field, they’re in the space, they’re hovering sort of around and their parents waiting for their opportunity to, to come through. Onto this planet. And so that’s kind of when I’m working with Spirit babies, which is much of my work now is that’s sort of strictly focused on, on the energetics and the communication around that.

And in my psychic medium work, you know, that was kind of a lot of different things at once when I was working with people’s ancestors and, and connecting to them and providing healing messages, which. Even just thinking about the parallel now of, you know, for so long I was working with people who were [00:13:00] looking to have contact with loved ones who had passed and sort of had gone through the, the end of life portal.

And then I sort of switched at a moment where it was actually time to support souls who were looking to come into new life. And so I really kind of got to hold this, this polarity of like life and death and other pieces of. The psychic medium work that I do is I became very passionate because of my own experiences of not being able to understand what was going on with me, of really helping people to understand like their unique intuitive mechanism, how it’s working, how it’s speaking to them, and then even going beyond that of accessing different levels of their extra sensory perception in, in whatever way that looks like and however they’re looking to use it.

I’ve worked with doctors, nurses, osteopath, naturopathic, doctors, chefs, all of these different people who are utilizing their intuitive abilities in their respective fields, which is just really exciting to me. Also, because I think that we’re having [00:14:00] this more and more, we’re having this integration of people who are living with soul and living with spirit and living through their intuition in, you know, out in, in the wild, in, in, in the world, and like using these gifts to support them in their field and the people that they support as well.

So that’s kind of the distinction. 

Melissa: Yes. We’re all incredibly intuitive, aren’t we? 

Emily: Yeah. Oh yes, absolutely. I think that some people will come to me and they say, well, Emily, I’m not, that’s just not me. I know that’s you and that’s your thing, or that my mom was always really good at that, but that’s just not me.

And 99.9% of the time, even when people are saying that there’s something that, it’s just really that we just don’t understand how it’s actually working uniquely for us, or that we just haven’t had the time in our life to develop that. You know? And it’s my prayer and my hope that this mastery or this deep understanding, this deep body understanding, cellular understanding of our intuition is going to be something that is taught and [00:15:00] shared more and more as the as time goes on.

So. That’s my prayer. It’s starting to happen, but I think that that will help so much because we’re just not, I mean, we’re taught how to do maths and we’re taught how to, you know, to write essays and we’re taught how to do all of these things, but this, this fundamental force that is, can carry us through our entire human incarnation that is so beautifully supportive for us to have personally, professionally, collectively, and we just aren’t given the tools of like how to actually listen.

You 

Melissa: know? Absolutely. It’s a muscle and I feel like the more we strengthen it, the stronger it’s gonna get. How do we strengthen this, encourage this, inspire this in our children? I have two little kids and I do things now, like, I’m like, what does your body say? Ask your body. Like, I say these things to her all the time, but what else can I be saying to really help her strengthen her intuition.

Emily: I love this question. [00:16:00] I think it’s so beautiful and so important, and so many parents, like you are asking the same questions now, which I think is just amazing that we have this generation of parents who are saying, okay, I, I want to foster this connection in my children. I wanna make sure that they are going through their lives knowing what their intuition is and how to listen to it.

And so I think it’s just the most amazing thing that we have, that our generation is, is asking these questions because it’s so important. It’s, I mean, it would’ve saved me a lot of time, a lot of time and a lot of struggle if, if this had been my experience. But also I understand why I had to go through what I went through.

So back to your question, I think the direction for children back to their natural state, because really for children, their natural state is the sole self. It’s the intuitive self. Like that is actually what they’re most comfortable with for many of them. And so. When we are guiding them back home to that and we’re saying, Hey, [00:17:00] your brother’s doing this, or your friend is doing this, but what do you want?

What feels right in your body that is just this redirection back into their true north, into like their intuitive compass that exists within them. And I think that that is almost one of the most powerful things that, that, that we can do as parents. Is this just redirection And, and sometimes I think it’s.

It’s, it almost takes a little bit of time for it to catch on or for them to kind of really like go, okay, and maybe they start doing it before you even have to give the prompt or the cue. So I think that is massive. That’s huge. Huge, huge. I think the other thing is also listening. Something that I find with a lot of children is that, you know, if you sit down and talk to them, they have so much to say, number one.

And I think that so much of it is actually they’re, they’re sharing things that are relevant or important to them in some way. But sometimes they’re sharing things that can sometimes get lost in what we would think of. Like, oh, they’re just. Talking about this or that, but it’s [00:18:00] actually, there’s some sort of transmission that’s kind of happening within whatever it is that they’re speaking.

They’re actually sharing something from their heart. They’re sharing something from their spirit, they’re sharing something from their intuition, and it can kind of sometimes get lost. And so I also love to say a beautiful tool that we can be doing as parents to really continue to foster this is to listen.

But I think also validate like, oh, I, I hear what you’re saying. I’m, and I, you know, to kind of like get on their level and also be like, what could they be trying to say here? Because I think the other interesting thing is that children are using the vocabulary that they have access to, to translate sometimes these very big kind of energies or esoteric concepts.

I’ll give an example. I was talking to a mother once and she was telling me that her daughter was talking about having this dream over and over where she was in a cloud. When she was in that cloud, there was also this hallway filled with doors and she would [00:19:00] look in each of the doors and kind of see where she wanted to go, but she wasn’t sure.

And long story short, what ended up, what we ended up figuring out is she was actually recalling, she was sharing the memory of her time before she was born. She was, she was talking about how she chose her mom. It was incredible. And then she said, you know, we eventually got her to the point where she said, you know, and mommy, I was in the cloud and I was looking through all the doors, but I couldn’t find the right door.

But then I came to your door and when I went through your door, I saw you and you had the most beautiful hair, and you were so nice and kind. And then I decided that I wanted you to be my mommy. And so like, then we got this story from her around that actually, you know, it was kind of this dream that she couldn’t quite figure it out.

And then we figured out, oh, this is what she’s saying. And so I think that sometimes there’s kind of this puzzle piece to how our children are revealing their, their intuition or revealing their soul memories or revealing what they think or what they see or what they remember, right? Because I think that [00:20:00] children are, like, in this, especially from ages zero to seven, they are remembering, they have, they’re, they’re able to retain full memory.

And this has been studied. There’s all kinds of amazing people who are much smarter than me who are who, who share about this and talk about this and who actually study this. There’s a place here in North America, in the University of Virginia where they’re doing the studies on children in past lives and their past life memories.

And I mean, it’s just this work is really starting to pick up. Anyway, all this to say, I think listening is such a powerful tool, and then validating as well, because what it does is it actually starts to build confidence in children, and they start to know, oh, I can share about these things and I can say the thing that I’m, I, if I’m having a dream about something, it’s safe for me to, to, to share it.

I think that fundamentally, if, if children feel safe, they feel like they can speak and share and speak their minds, and so, you know, as we’re, that’s one of the ways that we can foster and, and shepherd this safety and the sense of safety [00:21:00] is by knowing that it’s gonna be accepted and it’s not gonna be dismissed, and that there’s this sense of belonging.

You know, I think that it, it’s like, oh, I’m not being dismissed for this. And something I’m noticing with many more children, especially now, is that they’re coming in with such strong soul memory and such strong desire to be connected to their soul self, their intuition. And it’s kind of not an option for them.

Like they really desire this connection and to keep this connection and to not have to let it go or to not have to, you know, lose it and then rediscover it. And so yes, listening, validating, redirecting them back into their body, into their senses. And I think also the last thing I’ll share is I think also giving them ways to, you know, to express their.

Intuition in a, in an outlet that’s appropriate for children. So a lot of the times I’ll say like, sit down with your child and have like some finger paints or some watercolors or some [00:22:00] markers and say, you know, let’s all draw like, you know, where we came from or like what we feel like inside, or what color we are or what color we feel like, you know, these sort of outlets that are appropriate for children are also really beautiful to help them to access their intuition in a really fun and playful way as well.

Because I think that that’s so much of a child’s experience, right? Is, is, is this levity right? This curiosity, this playfulness, this joy, and how can we actually make accessing and connecting to their, their spiritual awareness or their intuition or this sort of thing feel really fun. I think that those are some big ways that, that we can support them.

I mean, many, many more. And I think also last thing I’ll say is often parents and mothers especially, you know, we have this sort of innate. Subtle understanding of how to support our children, especially through their, their spiritual life or their spiritual world. And so I would also just add to any person, any parent out there who’s wondering the same thing [00:23:00] as you, to trust themselves as well, to really, like, I trust myself to know how to support my child in this way.

And even if it doesn’t like. It. It’s kind of maybe I’m almost also just acting in the moment and it’s not premeditated and I’m just sort of, oh, this is coming outta my mouth as they’re saying this, or as they’re speaking this thing to me. Then I’m just allowing myself to kind of it, and also intuitively, right, it’s listening to your intuition and in in your own way, your mother’s intuition that is so innate to you 

Melissa: and to your being as well.

I love that. And then, does the same apply for us as adults to strengthen our intuition? Is there anything else? You know, you’ve mentioned listening, you’ve mentioned like tuning into the body, but what else can we do as adults to really tap into this psychic ability, this intuitive nature that we all have?

Emily: Yes. I think the first thing is coming back to like what I would call our. Foundational intuition. Our [00:24:00] fundamental intuition. So this is the intuition that guides us through our, our everyday life. It’s the intuition that says, yes, this is right. No, this isn’t right. Yes, I want to go here. No, I don’t wanna go here.

It’s a very, it’s, it’s very primal in a sense. But the thing is, as many of us have been deconditioned from listening to this primal intuition, and we constantly gaslight ourselves and say, well, no, I’m not, I’m gonna do this instead. And usually that’s because it’s, we’re kind of working or moving from the mind center where we’re making decisions here.

Logically, this makes sense. My mom did this, my best friend did this, so. That’s what’s, that’s what I’m gonna do, because it worked for them. And so certainly it’ll work for me. And so I think fundamentally that’s the first thing is like, is how can you return to this primal intuition? And I think the thing is, is it’s not something that necessarily happens overnight.

Like this is a practice. I feel like it’s still a practice even for me, where I’m still like, okay, Emily, like back into your body, back into your gut, back into your private intuition. Does your body actually wanna do this? No, it [00:25:00] doesn’t. So why are you doing it? You know it, it’s. It is a practice. I think like anything else, and especially because we, again, like I mentioned earlier, we don’t have the tools in this, in our societal sort of makeup in order to support this.

So that’s the first thing. Learn and develop a relationship with your foundational primal intuition. Something that really helped me with with this, with somatic therapy. And it’s something I recommend to, to a lot of people, especially if they’re like, what does that even mean? Like, what does that, I don’t even know what that means.

And usually what that points to, if there’s a, a, a, a, like if maybe you’re thinking that out there, what does that mean? There may be sort of a disconnection from the, the, the, the, the deep body wisdom or the deep intuitive wisdom that we need to rediscover our connection to or just learn about in the first place, because then that can open up so much more.

And I kind of went backwards because I developed a lot of my psychic abilities before I was actually, before I actually knew how to be properly grounded in my [00:26:00] body. And I don’t recommend it because it, it led to a lot of experiences that weren’t so great and a lot of ungroundedness and a lot of health issues actually, because I was kind of very up here and I wasn’t in my body.

And so that’s the first thing I would say. And then for people who are like, okay, I have a good understanding of my. Fundamental foundational intuition, and I wanna go to the next step from there. It is discovering, and this can be sort of subtle sometimes, but it can take some practice to pay attention to as well.

But it is going through, I’ll actually take us through just kind of each one so we can explore it. But it’s going through these core, what call psychic senses or sometimes known as the Claires or the psychic senses, and understanding which one or multiple are your strength. You know? Can you, if you close your eyes and try and picture a red apple in your mind’s eye, how easy or hard is that for you to do?

Can you picture the apple? Can you spin it around? Can you see it from the top? Can you see it from the bottom? Can [00:27:00] you see if there’s any imperfections in the skin of the apple? How dark is the red of the apple? Is there a stem? Is there a leaf? Right? It’s like how? How easily does that feel for you?

Another kind of test. Of inner vision is when people are telling you a story, can you actually see. Scenes or snippets of that story in your mind as they’re talking to you, that’s also a really good indicator that inner vision is a really strong sense for you, or it’s also called clairvoyance as well.

And so we’re kind of starting to work with these, these, these senses or extra senses that that kind of. Can mirror our physical senses. So obviously we see with our eyes, but we can also see through the third eye, we can see in our mind’s eye and our inner eye. So that’s the first one. Another one is something that I will call like a bo more.

This is Bo, a body intuition and sometimes known as clear sentient. And so this is how easy or hard is it for you to call up a specific emotion, let’s [00:28:00] say joy. How easy is it for you to call up joy in your system, to feel joy, to feel overwhelmed by joy, even if you have to tie a memory to it? Can you feel joy coursing through your system and through your body?

Just even with my cue just asking you to call this up, are you able to access it? So this is like a very body-based psychic sense. It’s very, it’s very much, it’s empathic in a way. We’re experiencing our psychic. Awareness through the body and through, and it’s even, it’s even more than the body. I would also say kind of the, the energy field that surrounds the body because it sometimes can be kind of around the body in a sense.

So that’s another way. And a lot of people will find when, when I’m talking to people who have this, they’ll say, well, yeah. I was always like, when I see the commercial on TV and it’s really sad, I’m crying before it’s even really started. And it’s like, well, there’s a deep kind of. Energetic transmission that you’re getting from that and you’re feeling in your [00:29:00] body in a way that’s almost overwhelming.

And so that’s sort of a, a, a good, and, and, and the interesting thing is too, Melissa, as I’m talking about these things, people in the audience are probably going, oh yeah, I do that, or, that’s already happening to me. Or, I, I already know this. And so I like to, I like when people say that because what it means is that this is not necessarily something that is out of reach or something that, you know, you have to walk a long path in order to, in order to discover what these gifts are and how they work.

It’s more often than not, these are already operating. We just have to be able to recognize when they are and what they are. And that was a huge part of my journey is, you know, my mentor would often say, I would say something and she’d go, okay, well right there, you’re doing it. I’d be like, what are you talking about?

She’s like, that’s it, that’s the gift. And I was like, what? That’s just who I am. She’s like, exactly. And so sometimes I think it’s hard for us to pick apart what is an actual. Sort of ability or psychic gift when we just consider it to be very natural. It’s like, this is just me. This is just how I talk or how I think.

So those are two of them. There’s two [00:30:00] more. I’ll just go quickly into them. There’s another one that is a, a psychic sense of just a knowing, right? So this is, you will know that the person in front of you is maybe being a little inauthentic in your conversation and you don’t necessarily have evidence to back that up.

But you have this knowing that, Hmm, I don’t know about this, about this person, or this is all of a sudden somebody asks you a question and the answer is just sort of delivered into your mind and you’re not exactly sure where it came from. Seemingly out of nowhere, but all of a sudden it’s there. So clear cognizance or clear knowing or this kind of this, it, it’s, it’s very, can be very mental.

There’s just information that is sort of downloaded or delivered into the mind. And a lot of people who. Have this or who have this as a natural gift are just very naturally intelligent without needing to try. You know, I knew a lot of people I was growing up with who never had to study for the test, but they always got everything right because they just knew, oh, well, it’s this answer.

This is the answer, this is the answer, because it was just [00:31:00] obvious to them. So that’s another one. And the last one is, is a clear hearing. This is a, the sense of being able to receive the answers. And it’s sort of a, it’s a trickier sense to understand. It’s a little bit more abstract, a bit more fluid, because sometimes this can actually be like, you are having this, this intuitive voice that’s sort of saying, Melissa, do this, or Go here or take this next step here.

That’s actually kind of this dialogue that you’re having with the, with the higher self version or your, you know, your soul. You’re having a conversation with your soul and you’re actually able to hear it. So I think all this to say. I like to explain these because it actually brings it down to earth a little bit about these are not just things that are, you know, kind of happening and we don’t know what they are.

Many of these things we’re already all experiencing in one way or the other. Even if it’s not consistent, even if it doesn’t happen all the time, it does not matter. We can, as adults, if we are [00:32:00] interested in developing our psychic ability more, we can pay attention to, to these Claires, these psychic senses, and we can just bring that into our day to day.

And so as someone’s talking, like maybe now that I’ve said this, you’re gonna actually tune in and pay attention. Oh, I can actually see what they’re describing as they’re saying it. It’s playing like a movie in my mind. And so that’s a good clue that there’s kind of a gift moving in that direction. So yeah, it’s a, all of it’s really about understanding.

I think that it is just, and that’s why I kinda like to demystify it a little bit because we realize that it’s happening much more than we think it is. 

Melissa: I love this so good. I’m definitely gonna practice this myself. I feel like the visual one for me is quite strong, so I wanna share with you how I first discovered spirit, baby readings and spirit babies and spirit baby psychics and mediums and things like that.

So when I got with my husband in 2013, I knew that I wanted to have babies with him one day, and we weren’t trying straight away, but I knew [00:33:00] that one day we wanted to have babies. And so I began my journey on getting my body and my mind ready. You know, I went and did all the tests. I started like optimizing my hormones, even though it was not until seven years later when we actually wanted to start having a baby.

But like I was in trimester zero that whole time, optimizing my body, my mind, and I came across. Spirit baby mediums. And I read the book Spirit Babies, which is just such a beautiful book and the chants in there. I did all of those, but it wasn’t until we started trying for Bambi, I don’t really like to say the word trying.

I like to say we made the decision that we were ready. That took 18 months for her to come in, and it was so hard for me. It was so like, I feel emotional even just saying it because I longed for her so deeply and I didn’t even make the decision. I woke up one morning and I turned to my husband and I said, I’m ready.

And [00:34:00] he is like, ready for what? Like to go to the beach. I was like, I’m ready. I’m ready to have a baby. And that was, I feel like her saying, I’m here. Knock, knock, knock. And so that’s when we started going for it. And 18 months every month. I lived my life in two week increments. Waiting to see if I was pregnant or waiting to try again.

You know, it was just so challenging. So heart wrenching. Every single month I just cried and cried and I read spirit babies. And then that really helped me have such a deeper understanding of what was going on. I actually had a spirit baby reading with someone. And it’s so interesting because going into it I was like, hmm, I dunno if she’s the person for me.

And anyway, we had this session and she was overseas and I don’t think I could see her. We were just doing a audio call ’cause she didn’t wanna do video and [00:35:00] something was off. You know, that knowing was a bit like, oh, something’s off. Anyway, the first thing she said to me is like, you are gonna have a boy, your first baby is a boy.

And I was like, no, it’s not. I was like, it’s not, and she was like, yeah, it’s a boy. And then I felt this like, I was like, this doesn’t feel good in my body. And then the internet cut out and we never got reconnected, and she didn’t charge me for the, I think it was like maybe 20 minutes and it was like a couple of hundred dollars.

Anyway, I just had that feeling within me where I was like, no, I’m not. I know because she told me she was a girl and she was coming and she told me her name and everything. And so I felt like, oh, anyway, it just didn’t feel good in my body going back to that sense. So then I started doing all of the chants from that Spirit baby book.

I did them every morning. I would get up before it was daylight and I would sit on our couch and I would [00:36:00] chant and my husband would come with me sometimes and I did all of that anyway. She’s now here. It’s wonderful. But that was my introduction to spirit babies and readings and listening to them and, and people like you.

So I wanna know, firstly, how does it come to you? Like, do you have to like close your eyes and tap into my energy? Like how do you do it? I’m just curious. 

Emily: Yeah. Great question. Well, thank you for sharing. I love it. And, and also I think it’s wonderful that you had the discernment and the awareness and the just like.

That. Yeah, like that. No, that’s not correct. That’s not what I feel. And I think that that’s beautiful because that shows that, and, and it kind of really ties in a lot to what I feel as well, which is that, you know, our children are, even if they’re not necessarily talking to us every day, but, but we have a sense of them.

And I love how you say trimester zero. And I would, I would, in my own work, I would say that there is this like preconception portal that [00:37:00] we’re in before our babies come in. And this can sometimes be like years, you know, some, for some people it’s even been decades where they’re in this kind of preconception period where their spirit, babies in their space and they’re in their field, but they haven’t necessarily come through yet.

So anyway, all this to say, I love your story for me. You know, I, like I said, I’m very inner vision. And so that, and that’s how it first came through to me with that first woman, I could see this girl. And at first it was confusing, like I said, because I was like, who is this girl? I don’t know who she is.

And so I’m trying to kind of describe this to the woman that was front in front of me. And obviously we eventually figured it out, but you know, now I think that as I, as my work has continued, I have number one developed like such a deep reverence and respect for these energies and for their intelligence and their wisdom and their power and everything else.

And so I just have so much respect for. The, what I [00:38:00] would call like the souls coming to earth, incoming souls, spirit, babies. And so, you know, I’m really, as I’m tuning in, yes, like in my process as I, if I was meeting for someone for the first time, I would kind of share with them just how my process works and how spirit babies communicate to me usually.

And that each energy is very unique. You know, I’ve never talked to the same energy twice. Every energy is very different in the way that they decide to communicate, in the way that they bring information forward. Just like we are, you know, some are visuals, some are very talkative, some are very shy, some are a little quieter.

Some actually prefer to communicate in like colors and symbols and shapes rather than words. And it’s up to me to translate what they’re trying to say with those things. So yeah, it’s, I’m tuning in at the beginning and I also. I love to tune into people’s intention as well. You know, I think intention is so powerful.

I bring in intention in the spirit. Babies usually have an intention. They have a reason for being there too, right? Like they have things to say. They usually [00:39:00] have things that they wanna validate for their parents. Like, yes, you’ve been feeling me all this time. Yes, I am a girl. Yes. That dream that you had about me, that was real.

That was really me. You know, I think it’s very important for parents to really feel that. These subtle feelings, these little, like that knock knock that you said, I love that you said that. I say that all the time. It’s like, it’s just a, it’s a knock knock. Like there is a soul that is literally like, hello.

I would like to come through and maybe there’s things that you have to do before they do that. Maybe not. But I’m here, you know, so. Yeah, it’s, it’s, it’s always different. It’s, it’s always different. And what I’ve really gotten into now, and what I really love doing is talking to the souls before they, they’re coming in these spirit babies.

And the number one question that parents ask is, you know, how can I support them? How can I support them and their purpose, how can I support them and who they are and what do they need from me? You know, those are like the two most popular questions that I get, which I think if you’re a parent, you understand that.

I think that that’s like a, another primal just urge to [00:40:00] support our children in as many ways as we can. And I think the beautiful thing is that can begin even before conception, before birth. Like that begins, I think, preconception, which a lot of people find really comforting. And a lot of people in my community have these deep, beautiful connections with the souls of their children, even if they haven’t made their way earth side yet.

So anyway, to answer your question. It’s a blend. Every energy is very different in how they’re communicating. It can be visions, it can be feelings. It can sometimes be like direct words. I was working with a woman a couple weeks ago and right at the end I was talking to this little girl also, and she said to me in my kind of, uh, channel, I just heard her say, ask my mom when they’re going to decide to move because I wanna be with my family.

And so I said this to her and she’s like, well, my husband is from Sweden and we live in America, but we’ve been considering moving to Sweden again as a family, like making the international move. And we wondered, you know, if that would be good considering [00:41:00] conception and birth and all these things. And so I said, well, it sounds like she likes it.

You know, so little things like that that, that they will find ways to just sort of validate. Because I truly believe, and what I have seen time and time and time again is that they are. Not only sentient, but they are a part of our everyday life, even before they’re born, even before they’re conceived. I have another cool story of this client of mine who I wasn’t working with her at the time.

Her children were a little bit older, but she said that when her, her youngest daughter was about four, she said, oh, getting goosebumps still with this story. She said, mommy, like I used to watch you guys when you were outside in the house with the big brown fence and this, they had moved since then. What she was describing was their old house that they lived in before she was conceived, this youngest daughter, she said that she would watch them when they played in the backyard and that she would look through the big brown fence, which they had in their old house and watch her older sister and her [00:42:00] parents play outside.

So they’re not only sentient, but they are involved. They’re, they’re like, they are here. They’re watching. They’re present in our lives. They’re paying attention, you know, and I think even more than that, they are. Helping us grow. This is a huge part of my work where I think that there’s such an initiation, as I’m sure you know, from Maiden to Mother, you know, such a, a profound rite of passage.

And I believe that there’s also a rite of passage in the preconception period, or as you would say, maybe trimester zero, where, or the souls of our children are also initiating us. You know, they’re initiating us into purpose. They’re initiating us into deeper kind of soul alignment. In some ways, they are initiating us into greater balance and harmony and our relationships and our partnerships, our friendships, and our family dynamics.

They are doing so much with us. So much work with us, and sometimes that work can be, you know, extended. It can happen for more extended periods of time. Sometimes that work happens in a [00:43:00] very, very short period of time. It really just depends on the person and the soul. But all this to say, I wanna a little off track there, but that’s a big part of 

Melissa: it as well.

It really blows my. I tell my children every day, I say, thank you for choosing me. I say that to them every day. Thank you for choosing me. There’s three things I say to them, and I make sure they hear this. I say, I’m the luckiest mom in the world, and I say it sometimes behind their back to my husband. I say, oh, I’m the luckiest mom in the world.

So I say that. I say, thank you for choosing me. And then I’ll say, Hey, Bambi, do you know you are my dream daughter? Because I’ve got a daughter and a son. And then I’ll say to Prince, who’s only, you know, he’s little. He’s 10 months. And I’ll say, you are my dream son. And I actually have an alarm go off on my phone every Saturday at the exact time Bambi was born.

So she was born on a Saturday at a particular time, and an alarm goes off, [00:44:00] she’s four and a half, and it says, Bambi came to us. And so when that alarm goes off. I say Yay. And we cheer. My husband and I always cheer and we go, yay, thank. And now we say, thank you for choosing us Bambi, and thank you for choosing us, prince.

We love you. We’re so lucky. So we now celebrate, you know, both of them. But it’s just such a nice little beautiful thing to do. And I just, I love this so much. I love all of this. I wanna know, can the spirit babies tell you how they wanna come through? Like whether they wanna come through via IVF or donor sperm, which is so popular now, or just.

The good old fashioned way, like can the spirit babies communicate with you and go, knock, knock, knock. Mama, I wanna come through IVF donor, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Yeah, absolutely. 

Emily: Great question. I think you’re right. It is very much a question of the moment and the question of these times that we’re in right now is there’s [00:45:00] so many more options and so many more paths to bringing a child into this world.

And so as we’re working in the soul as well and understanding that in many ways souls do have preferences, you know, they have ideal sort of circumstances, but I will also say that many of them are. I won’t say many of them, but a lot of them are very flexible. And so, you know, they’ll say, we can try it this way first, and this is what feels right to you and we can try it this way.

And if we need to pivot and go to IVF, then we can try it that way. Or if we need to pivot and go to an egg donor or sperm donor, then we can try and go that way. So, you know, a lot of them, like their end goal ultimately is to be in your family and that’s what they want to manifest and create. And of course that’s what we want as well.

But you know, sometimes some of them have more particular paths of like, this is actually how it needs to happen or this is how I need to come through. So I’ll say it’s kind of a mixed bag in terms of some souls are, I would say, a bit more fluid and they have a bit [00:46:00] more adaptability, but others have a more particular sort of idea in mind of how, what their preference is or even how it needs to happen in order to serve their.

Soul mission and their soul, and their soul mission ultimately. And so this brings up like a whole other conversation just around not only conception, but I think also birth. You know, because I’ve had some babies who are like, I need to be, I want and need to be born via C-section, or some babies to say like, I need and want to be born at home and I do not wanna go anywhere near the hospital.

And so it’s like, it’s so interesting. But what I will say is that almost always, if a spirit baby is bringing through a preference, let’s say IVF or you know, hospital, birth, home birth, whatever it is, is that usually. That person has had or has a, knowing that that is the right path for them to, and so what I’ll find is that it’s not always, like I’m saying, I’m sharing with somebody, okay, your spirit [00:47:00] baby’s saying this about their path or this sort of thing, and they’re going, oh my gosh, no, I’m, that’s, that’s terrible.

I don’t wanna do that. They’re saying, I felt that, I felt that because again, it’s my belief that there is sort of an intricate like bond that exists. And I wrote this book called A Cosmic Bond because I believe that the bond between parents and children, not just the mother, but from the, the, the parent structure, whoever the caretakers are, there’s a, there’s a cord of energy that exists between you.

And so there’s, there’s just like the umbilical cord really, that, that there is an energetic umbilical cord that exists before pregnancy and before birth. That. Energetic information travels through where we can have this sort of feeling, sense of them, sense of their needs and this sort of thing. So to answer your question, yes, definitely.

A lot of them do have preferences and a lot of them do have ways of getting those preferences to their parents so they know, hey, this is what I want, this is how I need to come through, this is how I want to come through. And so that they can kind of follow those steps and take those [00:48:00] actions. Especially if it requires intervention of, of a certain kind.

Yeah, absolutely. 

Melissa: And if the Spirit baby hasn’t necessarily given you their name, like Bambi gave me her name, can you ask, and then can you ask for a sign from the spirit baby, if this is the right name, like, because this is such a big thing, like can you talk us through how you would do that? 

Emily: Oh yeah, because names are so important.

I’ve studied a whole other modality called Soul Contract numerology, and it explores how encoded within the birth name is the Destiny, basically like the, the name shapes the life, the soul’s life experience. It’s, it is so, the name is so, so important. And when I say that, sometimes people are like, oh my gosh, did I get it right?

Did I get it? You know, we can kind of like go, oh, we get a little panicky. But all this to say absolutely spirit, babies, give, give names in your case where it’s very clear, it’s very quick. And I’m sure in your case, Melissa, like you were just like, oh, that’s it. That’s her name. Like there was no other option.

That’s just, that’s her, right? Absolutely. Yeah. And I [00:49:00] love when that happens because it’s just, there’s just this knowing, but then this, this name that’s given to you and this knowing that comes 

Melissa: after it. And the thing is, is she did it to my husband as well, so it came to him as well. We can’t remember who it came to first.

But we were both in a meditation, and I have no recollection of whether I said, is it Bambi or whether he said it’s Bambi, but it was both like whoever said it, it was like, that’s her name. And this was years before she actually came. Amazing. 

Emily: Amazing. And, and that’s a, some people’s experience too, where, and I’ve talked to people who have had a very similar experience to you where one partner gets the name and it’s interesting because I love that you both got it at the same time or around the same time because sometimes one partner will get the name and they’ll bring it to the other partner and they haven’t like, gotten the download yet of the name.

And they’ll be like, really? Are you sure? But then usually the spirit baby will bring the name to the other partner eventually. It just kind of takes some time to catch up. And some people [00:50:00] come to me and they say, oh my gosh, I got this name from my spirit baby, and my partner hates it. What do I do? I said, just wait.

And they do. And, and it always comes around where if the name is given, if the name is given to, to one or both of the parents, it really is. Like divinely orchestrated by that soul. They really need or want that name to be called by throughout their life because the name is so important. It represents the destiny.

It represents who we are. It represents the purpose. It represents who we’re going to be. And so there’s so much power behind it in the soul contract numerology system. What it set the, the concept is that it’s the soul’s job to deliver the name to the parents, and it’s the parents’ job to be open enough to receive 

Melissa: it.

I don’t think I’ve done an episode in almost 700 episodes where I have had as many waves of goosebumps. So, wow. 

Emily: I love it. I love it. So that’s sort of this philosophy, and I completely, wholeheartedly agree with it, that your child [00:51:00] has. If not one name, they have one, two, like a handful of names that are going to be the best energetic and vibrational fit to support them through their life.

And their job is to get it to you. And your, your job is to stay open. And so if you have that knowing and you have that knowledge and you have that awareness, you can move through your pregnancy with this. I, I call it like a kind of a curious, playful awareness, right? Where you’re going, okay, I know it’s my child that is in utero with me now I know it’s their job to deliver this name to me, and I’m gonna get open and curious of like how they’re gonna do that.

How is it gonna come, you know, and different for every person. But I’ll give some examples. I have had people, actually, I was just talking to a girlfriend of mine and she had been kind of searching for this name for one of her babies and sat down at a restaurant and. The server came up and said her name and she said it was like an electric shock, went through her body and she was like, that’s the name.

Like that’s the name I’ve been waiting for, [00:52:00] right? So I was like that it can come like that. And she was just like, oh my gosh, this is it. And she was looking around at the people she was eating out at lunch with and they were like, are you okay? Are you okay? She was like, no, I just got my baby’s name. And so that’s one of the ways it can come in dreams.

I’ve had people say that they’ve had their soul of their child come to them in dreams. And I’ll also add that this can come in pregnancy and this can come long before conception as well. It really just depends In dreams is another big one. Seeing a name on a name tag or a billboard or even like on social media, you know?

I find spirit babies are using social media and different people’s names on social media and trying to like get these names in front of their parents. So you know, this person just interacted with your, your post and it’s like, oh my gosh, that name, I can’t, I get my eyes off it and I’ll kind of, I’ll, I’ll just say that and I’m sure you felt this and I’ve had this experience with my own spirit babies as well, where it’s like when you get the name, not only is there this like, oh my gosh, there.

That’s it. There’s this very specific body feeling [00:53:00] that I had. There was this just like, that’s right. Feeling that I had. But also it’s like time and space kind of moved differently for a moment. It’s like the field, like time, space field has been temporarily interrupted and kind of everything pauses because that is a very significant moment.

It’s the moment that the soul delivered their ideal name to you. It’s a huge moment. It’s a very powerful moment. And so usually we will know, right? And, and sometimes when people come to me and they’re like, I’m confused, I got this name. But I don’t know if it’s right. And I’ll say, tell me how you got it.

So I’ll like ask them to tell me the story, tell me how it came to you. And they’ll say, well, I was coming outta sleep and waking up for the day. And all of a sudden I heard this little boy’s voice saying the name. Let’s say like Benjamin, I heard the name Benjamin in my mind, and since then I haven’t been able to get the same Benjamin out of my mind, but does that mean it’s his name?

And I’m like, yes, that’s his name. Like he, he, that was how he delivered it to [00:54:00] you. Another one that I’ll hear people say a lot is they’ll say like, and it’s often so interesting, Melissa, is, is when people are in a flow state or in that kind of state, right before sleep in meditation or write as they’re waking up in the morning, as we know there’s a specific kind of state that the brainwaves are in at these periods of time.

And it just allows us to be a bit more receptive to these kind of God moments or these intuitive moments. And so. Yeah, essentially people will say, I was on a walk or I was, you know, kayaking and all of a sudden this name just appeared in my mind and I was kind of going, is that my baby’s name? And I feel like it is.

So it’s really, for the most part, it is kind of at some point during your preconception journey, during your pregnancy, for some people, babies, weight, even like closer to birth, but not always. Usually they’ll try and deliver it to you like before birth, but they’ll get it to you. And I think we just have to be open to all of the different ways that they can get it to you.

You can ask for signs. If this is your [00:55:00] name, I think this is it. I think it’s Benjamin. Can you show me a clear, strong sign of the name Benjamin Showing up in my world in a, in a clear, undeniable way in the next 24 hours. And they almost always are able to do it if we kind of ask clearly with love with, I wanna make sure I’m giving you the right name and can you gimme the sign to confirm that I’m on the right T track.

And they almost always find a way to 

Melissa: do that. I love that so much. I feel like you can do that with every decision in your life. You just have to ask and be open to receiving the sign. So I love that. Let’s talk about miscarriage. So I had a miscarriage in between my children and reading the book, spirit Babies really gave me a very different perspective on miscarriage.

And you know, in Kabbalah it’s a very spiritual, you know, that soul chose that experience. And yeah, I feel very neutral about the whole situation. So [00:56:00] I wanna talk about miscarriage, and also I did ask someone, and I would really like to hear your opinion too. So my son who came after the miscarriage, so I had Bambi, then a miscarriage, then my son and I asked this other medium.

Did he try and come through first with that miscarriage? And then did he come again? And I would love to know what is coming up for you before I tell her perspective. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 

Emily: Well, I’ll answer your question first, which is that like, I agree, and I also love Kabbalah and love the teachings and the philosophies of Kabbalah.

And it’s interesting because as I started to study it more and learn kabbalahs, kabbalistic perspectives on miscarriage, I was like, oh, this aligns perfectly with what I feel, which is my belief, in my perspective, is that every soul is on their own journey. And that for, you know, you and I and everybody else who is living in a human body on that planet, we’ve all been on our own [00:57:00] journey.

At some point, we chose to come through our parents, we chose to, to, for conception to occur, to, to, to move through pregnancy, to, to grow up, to become, you know, adults and autonomous in this world. And so also we can afford the same sort of line of thinking to the souls of children before they come into this world.

That every soul is on a journey. And we can kind of think that while if a a, if conception occurs, then. That soul must want to come into this world and to be born and to live right, and for, for some souls, that is not always the case in, in every pregnancy. Now. What I’ve learned over the years after working with many children who have come in for short periods of time or longer periods of time in pregnancy and then exited, is that number one, they always say, I, I was, you know, on my own journey or we were on a journey together.

We were co-creating something together. Even in that short time, I was able to experience your love. I was able to experience your devotion. [00:58:00] I was able to experience your, a little piece of your life. You know, I was able to see what it felt like to be here. And you know, they’re able to take something from that.

They’re able to, the soul is able to grow from that because ultimately, like that is the goal of the soul coming into a human vessel anyway. It’s to how, what can I pick up? What can I learn? What can I grow? How can I transform? How can I expand? And so that goes also for the souls of our children. That’s what a lot of them are looking to do.

And some of them just have short little periods where they are able to get something within a particular pregnancy, and then they maybe have to exit. A lot of them do come back. A lot of them do. A lot of them actually have sometimes short fleeting experiences or even longer experiences. You know, I’ve worked with mothers who have lost babies to stillbirth as well, which can sometimes feel harder to understand, I think, especially for the people who are in that position.

But the, the, the soul says much of the same thing, which is that was the [00:59:00] experience and the journey that I needed, and I got so much from it. And thank you, thank you, thank you for allowing me that opportunity. And sometimes they’ll also say, and I’ll be back in another body and I’ll make sure you know that it’s me and you’ll feel me again.

And. So I’ve seen that time and time again. So all this to say, you know, as I’m speaking, just to your experience, and I actually just over a month ago, experienced a miscarriage at 11 weeks. And so this is like so close to my heart, this topic because moving through it myself was, you know, I’ve been teaching and talking about this for so many years and then moving through it myself was, I mean, a profound initiation and a deep, deep spiritual experience and a beautiful experience with the soul of my child, as heartbreaking as it was.

And so, you know, it’s deep in my experience. But all this to say, coming back to what you shared is that sometimes babies, and, and maybe in the case of the soul of your son, will come and touch down in our womb for a specific purpose, for a specific period of time. And sometimes it’s [01:00:00] like they’re learning too.

They’re learning how to, you know, how to do this thing and how to do it in the way that they want to, or they are completing some sort of soul mission in a short period of time. But anyway, I do feel that this soul is, that the soul of your son that is now kind of came to touch down for a period of time in your womb to have a certain experience.

I do feel, I do. I felt that as soon as she said it, I was like, oh, that’s totally him. He, he, like, he came back and wanted to, and wanted to come back again just at a different time. And sometimes it can be timing too. That’s the other thing I forgot to mention is like they’ll. Come, and this is the case I believe in, in my experience with my miscarriage, with my, my, my daughter.

It was a girl where she said, you know, we had to do some like major heavy duty work over this, this period of time that she was in my womb. And, and, and we did it. And there was like this celebration. It was so funny. On the day, like the day before I found out I was miscarrying, she was like, she came to me in a vision.

She was like, I’m so happy, I’m so excited. We did it, we did it. I was like, what is going on? And then, and then found out after that we [01:01:00] had kind of completed some sort of soul mission in that period. So anyway, yes. 

Melissa: To answer your question, yes. Interesting. Because this other person I spoke to, she said it wasn’t him, it was someone else.

Okay. Interesting. What do you. I don’t know, but then I’m like, am I blocking it? Do you know what I mean? I’m like, am I blocking it? Well sometimes too. The other thing I’ll say 

Emily: is that sometimes, like in a, in a pregnancy and then a pregnancy loss, the soul goes through such a transformation that they can, and they, they often go through such a transformation.

Again, they’re, they’re expanding, they’re picking up, they’re learning, they’re growing. That sometimes they can almost sort of go through like a. Such a transformation that they almost like, feel different to us than maybe they did in, in the, in the, the pregnancy when they were here with us, where it’s like, wow, they’ve just grown and transformed so much and they feel different and we’re maybe not able to like necessarily recognize it or recognize it right away.

But what would be interesting, Melissa, is as your son gets a little older, and this is what I say, like we let the children reveal to us, right? Again, this is sort of just letting reveal, but I’ve talked to people who [01:02:00] said, you know, their children will say, when I was in your tummy the first time, things like that.

Melissa: Yeah. For, well, you know what my daughter says to me? She says, she looks up at the stars and she goes, the brightest star in the sky. And she goes, that’s the star Prince and I were on. Wow. Ooh. I know. Four goosebumps. And, uh, it’s just their bond. It’s so beautiful. Like I say to my husband, I’m like, you know, they’ve got each other now for life and it’s just so beautiful to witness that.

So all of this work is just so powerful. I love it so much. It’s just magic. I feel a bit like vulnerable asking this question because I’m like, oh, do I wanna know the answer to this? But are there always spirit babies floating around like, do you see any more for me? Or are there always some there and are there lots and they’re all [01:03:00] waiting?

Like, do you know what I mean? I’m curious. 

Emily: So it’s my belief that, in my experience, that there are souls that are. How can I say this? It, it’s almost like they’re contracted to a specific family. So I have no doubt that your daughter and your son, they were like, they’re, they’re spo and I’m sure you would agree.

They’re supposed to be here. Like they were always going to be within your family. They were always going to be here. And it’s also like the feeling that a lot of people will get with that is there’s this feeling of lack of completeness, right? It’s like I feel like there’s more, I feel like there’s another baby, or I feel like, I feel like there’s another being who wants to be here, right?

And so there’s energies that are kind of contracted where our soul has an understanding that there has been an agreement that’s been made before even we were born where, okay, I’m going to have, you know, I’m gonna try to have at least three children. And that would kind of be like these contracted souls, right?

And then, but also, you know, something I’ve experienced as well is that there [01:04:00] are more souls that wanna come to earth than there are bodies available. And so there’s a lot of these, what I would call kind of free agent souls who maybe not, aren’t necessarily like contracted to us, but are kind of gonna see maybe what they can work out.

And if there’s an opening and if there’s an opportunity. And this is where people will have like surprise babies where it’s like, oh my gosh, where did you come from? You kind of just dropped out of the sky, right? Is that these kind of souls are maybe like waiting for an opening or a window or an opportunity to come through and are able to kind of work that out for themselves.

So. I think it really just depends, you know, some people I’ve talked to some people who have like 15 energies around them and obviously, you know, I say that to people and it’s just like their face drains of color and they’re like, oh my God, now what does this mean? And it’s, it’s that it doesn’t always mean that that’s the amount of children that you have to have, but that is kind of the amount of potential energies, I guess, that you have around you.

And also tie it back to kind [01:05:00] of soul family as well, right? Like, I love what you said about your children and, and their bond and their connection. And I feel that just as I’m hearing you speak about it and then saying we’re from the same star and you know, my experience with Soul Family is that. Our souls and like I love the book Journey of Souls and I think it’s a great kind of way to explain the concept I’m about to talk about, but that as souls, like we don’t just travel individually throughout the galaxy and from body to body and life to life.

We travel with companions and with friends and with guides and we switch roles. You know, we are the mother one time and the father the next, and the child the next time. And we’re constantly sort of switching in order to support each soul’s collective evolution. And so I also think about it that way where it’s like, okay, well.

You know, your children and, and your family, like each member of your family like this feels like soul family. Like you, you’re, they, she shared like, oh, we’re from the same place and we’re from the same star, and you’re seeing their bond in real time, right? Where it’s like, okay, that’s a pretty good indicator that these [01:06:00] two souls are from the same pod, so to speak.

And I love how she said it from the same star, whether it’s actually that star. She’s using that kind of to contextualize something that she remembers, which is we’re from the same little bubble, we’re from the same cloud, we’re from the same pod, right? So. It’s also that to keep in mind too, that when you are feeling different energies around that or, or you know, you’re, you’re kind of tuning into more children and this sort of thing, that’s probably also that these are like members of your soul family and maybe they’re looking for an opportunity to come through and have an experience with you in that lifetime.

So that’s kind of how I would explain like children. And then what I say to people too is you always have a choice, right? You do have free will. You always have choice. You are the co-creator just of this experience, just as much as they are. And so you have a say, you have a choice, you have free will, and you can exercise.

Sometimes spirit babies will be like, okay, I know you have a choice and I know you have free will and all these things, but [01:07:00] I really need to come through. And so you’re gonna kind of have to be okay with that, you know? And they’ll do that too. And often it is something that the parents say, well, I’m so glad I listened to them, because our family would not be complete with others without this other child.

You know, like they, they, there’s always, usually we come to a level of acceptance eventually where it’s like, oh yeah, okay. I couldn’t see myself, my life without this child. And how could I ever think that there was a question that this being could be here? And I’ve helped many people through that. And especially, it is especially prominent.

I find maybe you’ll relate to this, Melissa, of like, the jump from two to three is often like such a big portal for a lot of people where they’re like, is there another being? Is there another soul? Am I open to that? Is there someone else who wants to come through? I love my little family. They’re so beautiful.

So anyway, when you asked the question, I did see. A little like on, on your kind of like, I guess what this would be me, your image. So this would be kind of like the right side of your head. I did see a little kind of bubble [01:08:00] being that with this kind of like a soul that’s in the space, that’s in your aura pretty close, like not that far.

That could sometimes, not necessarily indicative of like conceiving immediately, but it, it can, it can be that this is a soul who’s like, they’re watching, they’re interested, they’re sort of influencing your, your thoughts and feelings. I think as well too. You’ll know you maybe you already are getting that knock knock or maybe you will get that knock, knock again and again.

It’s different for every energy, how they decide to bring that through. But there definitely is another energy. It feels feminine to me. Like I kind of got this like pink, little pink kind of pinkish white glow around your head as I was talking. As you were talking about it. So I definitely do think there is at least that other energy, if not one more.

But I think if there is one more, it is more of a, it is more of a, this is kind of an energy that’s like, are they gonna say yes, you know, are they are, are they going to, to sort of like allow me to come through? So anyway, it’s fun. It’s fun to see. 

Melissa: Yeah. Thank you so much. Super interesting. Yeah, [01:09:00] I’m not a no and I’m not a, it’s a hundred percent, you know, so I’m like, we’ll see, we will see.

So I love all of this so much and I wanna know if you had a magic wand and you could put one book in the school curriculum of every high school around the world, so for boys and girls around 16, 17, what is one book you would choose that you want every single. 16 and 17-year-old to read. It could be on any topic.

Okay. That’s such 

Emily: a good question. I love this question, especially because I love books so much and books and finding spirit access to spiritual books was one of the things that supported me through my spiritual wake. And I think I’m gonna have to say one of the first books that changed my life and my perspective, which is Many lives, many Masters by Dr.

Brian. Yeah, I mean, it just, it’s, and I went to, shortly after I read that book, I went to go see him live and had, he did a live group regression and it was [01:10:00] one of the most amazing experiences that I’ve had. And so I think it, because the reason I picked that one is because I think it is such a good mind expander to the fact that there is so much more than just.

These physical lives, these physical bodies, and, and also coming from a person who is highly regarded, highly accredited, and highly respected, I just feel like it’s just going to penetrate and absorb more easily into the, the consciousness of very, very absorbent and perceptive minds of, you know, young children and young adults.

Melissa: It’s a classic. It’s so good. If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend it. I will link to it in the show notes as well as your incredible book. I’ll link to that as well, and all of your amazing work. Now, before we wrap up, I’ve got three rapid fire questions for you. Are you ready? Yes, I’m ready. What is one thing that we can do today for our 

Emily: health?

Oh, what’s coming to me is presence. Presence more present, like being more present with every part of your being. Body, mind, spirit, [01:11:00] presence. Yeah, love that. What’s one thing we can do for more wealth in our life? Believing anything is possible. Believing that you are a conscious creator and that your limitations are only as real as you decide that they are.

Melissa: Mm, yes, yes, yes. Goosebumps. Again, like, I mean, seriously. And last one, my love. What is one thing that we can do for more love in our life? 

Emily: Oh, you know, I wanna say to circulate more love. That’s what I love to do. If I’m looking to receive more love and experience, more love, I circulate more love out into the world as much as I can.

I give, I love. I compliment people. I love to compliment strangers on their outfits and their hats and all these things that I just circulate. Love 

Melissa: to receive more. Love. Me too. I love that so much. And one of the cabalistic principles that I love is come from a giving loving place, and I try and do that all day as much as I can.

So I love those answers. Thank you so much. This has [01:12:00] been so insightful, so inspiring. I really hope that it has. Given people a lot of peace and maybe opened a portal for them to explore and go deeper within themselves and to just check out all of your work. And I just wanna thank you for sharing everything that you’ve shared for all the incredible work that you are doing in the world.

How can I and the listeners give back to you today? You are helping and you are serving so many people. So what can we do to give back to you today? 

Emily: Oh, that’s so kind. I love that. You know, I would say my prayer is that we can have a continued reverence and respect and understanding for the sentient, beautiful, intelligent life that is coming onto this planet through the bodies of the children, and to just really respect every beautiful being that decides to arrive here in whatever way that looks like.

You know, I think that my favorite [01:13:00] way to do that is just like, even if it’s a stranger passing by me with a baby on the street, I love to just send them love and you know, give them a smile and waving at the baby and just acknowledging them for being here. You know, I think that the more that we do that, the more that we respect children and like how amazing they are in every way.

I’m just like such an advocate for children and their light, and their beauty and their love. I think more and more of us are doing that this world. In my opinion is going to keep changing because these are like these beings of the future. They are really helping us to create and and heal the earth in so many ways.

So that’s my prayer. Thank you for asking. I love that question. 

Melissa: Oh, thank you for being here. I am so grateful and I want to encourage everybody to go and check out your work. I’ll link to everything in the show notes, but thank you for being here. I’m so grateful. Thank 

Emily: you, Melissa. Thank you for conducting such beautiful interview and such beautiful space.

I’m so grateful and sending lots of love to you and your your [01:14:00] whole beautiful community. Pleasure.

Melissa: I hope you got a lot out of this conversation. I loved it, and if you did get a lot out of it, please subscribe to the show and leave me a review on Apple Podcast and send me a screenshot of your review to hello@melissaambrosini.com and I will send you my wildly wealthy guided meditation as a thank you for taking the time to leave me a review.

I’m truly so grateful to have you here and to have you leave a review is just the icing on the cake, so thank you so much. And now come and tell me on Instagram at Melissa Ambrosini, what you got from this episode. I absolutely love connecting with you, and I love hearing what your biggest key takeaways are.

So jump on over there and share it with me. And before I go, I wanted to say thank you so much for being here, for wanting to be the best, the healthiest, and the happiest version of yourself, and for showing up today for you, you rock. Now, if there’s someone in your life that you can think of that would really benefit from this episode, please [01:15:00] share it with them right now.

You can take a screenshot, share it on your social media, email it to them, text it to them, do whatever you’ve got to do to get this in their ears. And until next time, don’t forget that love is sexy. Healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word.

---

Thank you so much for listening. I’m so honored that you’re here and would be SO grateful if you could leave me a review on Apple podcasts, that way we can inspire and educate even more people together.

P.S. If you’re looking for a high-impact marketing opportunity for your business and are interested in becoming a sponsor for The Melissa Ambrosini Show podcast, please email pr@melissaambrosini.com for more information.

P.P.S. Please seek advice from a qualified holistic practitioner before starting any new health practice.