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You’ve made the lists, said the affirmations, and filled your vision boards… but nothing’s landing. So what’s messing up your manifesting?

In this powerful episode, I’m breaking down the biggest reasons people stay stuck with their manifesting, along with the exact daily method I use to call in the life I want.

Tune in to discover: how to get crystal clear on your desires (and whether you’re ready to receive them), my favorite question to uncover limiting beliefs, why your dreams are a divine invitation, how to reframe obstacles into stepping stones, and the simple routine that keeps me in energetic alignment.

If you’re ready to stop wishing and start co-creating, then press play now… this one’s for you.

In this episode we chat about:

• How to get extreme clarity on what you want to attract (1:24)
• The wildly effective technique I use to uncover limiting beliefs (4:24)
• The simple but indisputable reason why you should NEVER feel unworthy of your desires (6:06)
• Why it might be time for a brand new perspective on manifestation (7:57)
• The simple routine I swear by to rapidly manifest abundance (8:46)

Episode resources:

• Mastering Your Mean Girl by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Open Wide by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Comparisonitis by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
• Time Magic by Melissa Ambrosini and Nick Broadhurst (book)

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[00:00:00] The Melissa Ambrosini Show. Welcome to the Melissa Ambrosini Show. I’m your host, Melissa bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, open, wide, comparisonitis and Time Magic, and I’m here to remind you that love is sexy, healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word. Each week I’ll be getting up close and personal with thought leaders from around the globe, as well as your weekly dose of motivation so that you can create epic change in.

Your own life and become the best version of yourself possible. Are you ready? Beautiful. Beautiful.

Hi, beautiful. Welcome back to the show. I’m so excited about this episode because I love the topic of manifestation, and I want you to have everything that your heart desires. The truth is [00:01:00] the creator, God, the universe, the light, whatever you wanna call it, it also wants you to have everything that your heart desires.

The creator would not have put these things on earth if they were not for you. So this is how we manifest what it is that we truly desire. Firstly, I want you to get clear on what it is that you want. What is it that you want in your relationship? What is it that you want in your business? Get really clear on that.

Write it down, and then I want you to ask yourself, am I embodying the woman who can hold that relationship, that level of wealth that. Friendship, whatever it is that you desire, because the truth is, and this may [00:02:00] hurt, but the reason you haven’t got what it is that you desire yet is because you have not yet embodied the woman who can hold that desire.

Let that sink in and don’t you worry. Everything I’m saying is also for me too. There are things that I truly desire in my life right now and they haven’t manifested, and that’s because I have not stepped into the woman who can hold those things. And the thing is, is that woman is already within you. She always has been.

She always will be. However, there may be some limiting beliefs, some old stories, some. Habits, old identities that are holding you back from letting that embodied woman [00:03:00] hold that desire. So be truthful with yourself and answer this question, the thing that I desire right now in my life, am I being the full embodiment of the woman who can hold that thing I know for me?

No, I’m not. There are limiting beliefs, maybe old stories, habits, identities that are still playing out, and this is the work that we do here on earth, in this earth suit in this lifetime. This is the work becoming clear on what you desire. Asking yourself the question, am I embodying the woman who can hold that thing?

And if not. What do I need to let go of to unlock that woman? Because she’s already in there. [00:04:00] She’s there. So this is a big reason why you have not manifested, called in that desire of yours right now. Now this might sound like a lot for you to hear. It might feel too hard. But this is so liberating because it’s on us to take responsibility to unlock the woman who can hold that desire.

No one else can do this for us. It is us and every time we transform, we become more like the light and that manifestation comes closer. So if you can. Grab your journal or open the notes section on your phone and be honest with yourself. What do I need to let go of? What limiting beliefs, what stories, what [00:05:00] habits, what old identities do I need to let go of or transform in order to reveal the embodied woman who can hold the relationship?

The business, the family, the freedom, the wealth, the home, whatever it is that you want. Be really honest with yourself. This is the work, and it ain’t for the faint of heart. But when you do this work, watch what flows in your life. Watch the miracles start to. Unfold right before your eyes. This is the work and you can do it.

It might feel big, but you can do big and hard things. We all can. [00:06:00] You deserve whatever it is that you heart desires The creator, they put all of these desires here for you. They wouldn’t dangle the carrot in front of you if it wasn’t possible for you to get, so what you see is for you, what you desire is for you.

You just need to uncover, take off the big sheet that is over you right now that is hiding the embodied woman. That can hold that desire, that can hold that relationship, that can hold that wealth, that business, it’s in there. It always has been. It’s now time to take off that big sheet. It’s heavy. It’s uncomfortable.

It’s hot. [00:07:00] It drags you down. It’s annoying, it’s inconvenient. Let’s take it off. Your desires matter. You matter. And you get to have everything you want. And what do we need to let go of? What darkness needs to be transformed to light? And the darkness is the limiting stories, the old identities, the unhealthy, toxic, negative habits that all needs to go.

What you desire matters. And if you can see it, it is for you. And there’s no point sitting going, why has this not manifested for me? Why is this happening to me? Why have I not got X, Y, and Z? That keeps you stuck in the darkness. Those questions keep you stuck in the darkness. A positive reframe would be, [00:08:00] Hmm, I desire this.

That’s interesting that it hasn’t yet manifested what. Do I need to let go of to step into the woman who can hold that thing? What do I need to let go of? What do I need to upgrade? Because it’s absolutely possible you can do it any time in my life where I have done this, where I have done the inner work, where I have deeply transformed even when it’s felt painful.

When I have shifted it and become an embodied woman, that is when my manifestations have come. This is the work, so this is your homework. Each morning when you wake up, write down what it is that you desire. Then ask yourself, if I was to walk around today as [00:09:00] the woman who could hold. That thing, that relationship or that health or that business or that wealth, whatever it is.

How would she walk around? How would she show up? How would she respond to this situation or to her children or to a tech issue, whatever it is. How would that woman show up today? How would that woman dress? How would that woman speak? How would that woman hold herself? How would that woman do her hair, do her makeup?

How would that woman show up to her partner, to her children, to her friends? How would that woman show up today? That embodied woman who could hold that desire? How would she speak, walk. Talk, hold herself. These are the questions, the transformational [00:10:00] questions that will lead you to where you desire. You got this.

You can have whatever it is that you desire. My love. Never forget that it’s not reserved for someone else. Someone better, smarter, prettier. No, it’s for you. It is for you. So this is your homework. You got this. I’m so excited for you. You got this. So use these journaling prompts. Come back to this episode whenever you feel stuck.

And if you loved this episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone you love. And come and tell me on Instagram at Melissa Ambrosini. What is your biggest desire right now? I want to hear, I absolutely love hearing from you. I love connecting with you. So [00:11:00] come and tell me what your biggest desire is right now, and what do you need to let go of shift to hold that desire?

Come and share it with me. And before I go, I just wanted to say thank you so much for being here. For wanting to be the best, the healthiest, and the happiest version of yourself, and for showing up today for you. You are amazing. Now, before I go, do not forget that love is sexy. Healthy is liberating and wealthy isn’t a dirty word.

I love you. I believe in you. You got this. Your desires are just around the corner.

Thank you so much for listening. I’m so honored that you’re here and would be SO grateful if you could leave me a review on Apple podcasts, that way we can inspire and educate even more people together.

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