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Manifestation isn’t magic, it’s alignment. And when you understand how energy truly works, life starts meeting you halfway.

In this episode, I share the 7 spiritual laws of manifestation — the universal principles that quietly shape everything you create. These are the deeper energetic codes that turn intention into reality.

When you live by these laws, things click (FAST). Desires unfold naturally. You feel guided, supported, and magnetic — not because you’re forcing, but because you’re flowing with the rhythm of the Universe.

You’ll learn how to purify your energy by releasing gossip and negativity, anchor your faith through prayer, give from overflow, and manifest for the good of all.

This is manifestation as a spiritual practice — clear, grounded, and wildly powerful.

Listen with an open heart and get ready to attract what’s already meant for you.

In this episode we chat about:

  • The truth that what you desire is already for you (1:35)
  • How gossip and negativity block your abundance — and how to clear them (2:30)
  • The real role of faith and prayer in manifestation (6:39)
  • Why generosity multiplies wealth and joy (10:19)
  • The shift from manifesting for yourself to manifesting for the collective (13:38)
  • How to choose growth over comfort when you’re ready for your next level (15:48)

Episode resources:

  • Mastering Your Mean Girl by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
  • Open Wide by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
  • Comparisonitis by Melissa Ambrosini (book)
  • Time Magic by Melissa Ambrosini and Nick Broadhurst (book)
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[00:00:00] The Melissa Ambrosini Show. Welcome to the Melissa Ambrosini Show. I’m your host, Melissa bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, open, wide, comparisonitis and Time Magic, and I’m here to remind you that love is sexy, healthy is liberating, and wealthy isn’t a dirty word. Each week I’ll be getting up close and personal with thought leaders from around the globe, as well as your weekly dose of motivation so that you can create epic change in.

Your own life and become the best version of yourself possible. Are you ready? Beautiful. Beautiful.

Hey, beautiful. Welcome back to the show. I’m so excited about this episode because I love the topic of manifestation and I think that I have some magical manifestation fairy dust that I wanna share with you. Because when Nick and I first got together, he used to say, you [00:01:00] literally manifest anything you want from the big to the tiny.

I would manifest it from parking spots to holidays to dream clients. Anything that I wanted, I manifested. And Nick used to always say, it’s like you have this magical manifesting fairy dust that you sprinkle on anything that you want and you get it. And he was like, you have to tell people about this. So today I wanna share with you seven mindset shifts to manifest anything that you desire in your life.

Firstly, I wanna kick off by reminding you that whatever you desire in your life, it is for you. For example, I have no desire to be a bodybuilder, but that might be someone else’s desire. I have other desires. So what do you desire for your relationship, for your business, for your family, for [00:02:00] your health?

What do you desire? Write everything down. And then I’m gonna give you seven powerful mindset shifts to help you manifest those desires. And I promise you, if you apply these right away and you go all in, you will see miracles in your life very quickly. So I’m gonna go through them. I want you to write these down.

These have changed my life and helped me become a manifestation magnet. If you wanna manifest what your heart desires number one is, stop gossiping. Yep, stop gossiping. If you want to manifest something in your life right now, check yourself. Ask yourself. When was the last time I gossiped? And this doesn’t mean necessarily sitting around saying mean things about someone else.

Yes, that is gossiping. But gossiping is also [00:03:00] saying anything, even if it’s true, like Sarah cheated on her husband Tom, even if that is quote unquote true, it is still gossip if you are stating facts. And even if you said nothing else. But Sarah cheated on her husband. That’s why they split up. That is gossip.

Okay. Anything that would shift someone else’s perception of someone is gossip. So Kabbalah teaches that every word is energy in motion. And when we speak about others, especially with judgment or drama, we leak our spiritual power. So gossiping isn’t just talking. You could think of it like energetic vandalism.

It dims our light, it closes our heart and disconnects us from the creator, from creative force, from source, from [00:04:00] God, whatever you believe in. So before you speak, pause and ask yourself, does this add light or darkness? Is this adding to the world or is it taking, is this uplifting or is this diminishing?

I guarantee if every single person did this, there would be a lot less talking. So choose words that bless not curse. When we hold our tongue and stay in integrity, your manifestation channel clears instantly. You stop blocking the very energy that you are trying to attract. Every time you gossip, you say something about someone else.

Even if it’s true, anytime that you were judgmental, that you were negative, you actually push back your manifestations a month, two months, three months, five years. So hold your tongue and instead of gossiping, say something nice about that [00:05:00] person. Uplift that person, help that person pray for that person.

Support that person. So that is the first step to manifest anything you desire. And by the way, I hope you are writing these down. Type them in the notes section of your phone, print them out, stick them on your fridge. Bring these into your home. Teach your children. So number two is quick negativity.

Negativity is spiritual static. It clouds your connection to the light or to the universe, or to source, or to God, or to whatever you believe in. In Kabbalah, every challenge. Carries concealed light. There is a gift. There is an opportunity for growth and evolution, but only when we choose to see beyond appearances.

So complaining, judging, catastrophizing, they shut the door to our manifestations. Shifting out of negativity doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect. I’m not saying that it means training your eyes to see purpose where others [00:06:00] see problems. So anytime anything happens in your life. You go, okay. Hmm.

Where is the gold in this? Look for the gold. Look for the purpose, not the problem. When something triggers you whisper. This is from the light. This is from God. This is from the creator. That small phrase rewires your mind to find lessons instead of losses and manifestations flow from that expanded state.

So quit negativity. All of these are going to change your life and change your family’s life. Number three, cultivate certainty. Certainty is one of the highest frequencies in Kabbalah. It’s the unwavering knowing that the light is already working behind the scenes even when the evidence hasn’t caught up yet.

Certainty isn’t blind optimism or toxic positivity. [00:07:00] It is deep, deep, deep spiritual trust. It’s remembering that delay is not denial. It’s divine timing. So anytime something has not happened for you yet, have certainty that it is unfolding every time. Doubt creeps in. Say to yourself, I choose certainty over chaos.

That choice reactivates your alignment because the universe mirrors your level of trust. When you hold certainty, the light rushes in to meet you. So whatever is happening in your life right now, trust have certainty that it is from the light. Look for the gold. Everything is happening for us, have certainty.

So every morning I take my two kids for a walk. It’s one of my favorite rituals, and when I’m pushing the pram back up the hill. [00:08:00] Bambi and I do affirmations. I am beautiful. I am kind. So I say them and she repeats them, and it’s the cutest thing ever. We yell them and people are walking past, we don’t care.

I am amazing. I am kind. I am loving. I am smart. I have certainty. I get her to say, cultivate certainty. Have certainty that everything is unfolding the way that it is supposed to. When you hold certainty, the light rushes in to meet you. Maybe there’s something in your life right now where you’re like, why is this happening to me?

Shift that to I choose certainty over chaos. Then the light will rush into meet you. Number four, pray. This is how you connect to the light. So prayer is the practice of rea attuning your energy to God. Source the universe, the creator. It’s not begging. It is remembering catalyst. See [00:09:00] prayer as dialogue.

It’s not one way pleading. I grew up extremely Catholic, so this was a rewiring for me. It is not pleading. It’s a daily recalibration. You open your heart, you express gratitude and ask, not just for things, but to become the person who can hold them. To become more like God, more like the creator. This is what I do when I pray.

The first thing I say is, thank you. I have everything. Thank you. I have everything. Thank you. I have everything. And then I might go into a dialogue about whatever it is that I desire, and I always say, help me open my heart to become more like you. To become the person who can hold more love, more abundance, more everything.[00:10:00] 

When you pray with intention, you strengthen the vessel that receives blessings. You move from control to communion, and that’s where miracles begin. My friend, in surrender, that is where they begin. So pray number four, pray. Pray. Pray. Number five, give generously. In Kabbalah, they say that giving is the fastest way to draw abundance.

You know the feeling you get when you give to somebody else, whether that’s money, time, energy, a meal, whatever it is, you know that feeling you get instantly, you are more abundant. And why is that? Because energy must move to multiply. Really let that sink in. Energy must move to multiply. Money must move to multiply.

When you hoard time, love, or money, you tell the universe that there [00:11:00] isn’t enough, and it makes me so emotional just saying that because I’ve been there. I’ve hoarded my time, I’ve hoarded my love, I’ve hoarded my money, and I can tell you that I was incredibly miserable. When you hoard, when you hold on with white knuckle grip, you tell the universe that there isn’t enough.

Therefore, I have to hold onto it. When you share, you are saying there is enough. You declare abundance. You are saying to the universe, there is enough to go around here. I’m gonna give you my time, I’m gonna give you my love, I’m gonna give you my money. I’ve got plenty of it. I’m infinite. My buckets are overflowing.

And just so you know, like giving doesn’t always mean money. I’m not just talking about that. It’s your presence, it’s compassion, a text, a voice message, a meal, a gift paying for someone’s matcha. Whatever it [00:12:00] is, the act itself expands your vessel for receiving. Imagine if every single human on this earth today.

Made today the day that they gave to every single person they came in contact with. So every single person you spoke to, you came into contact with today, you gave something to your presence, your time, your love, your money, your energy. Imagine how much happier everyone would be. That’s your homework. How can you give to everyone you meet?

And here’s the most important part, true giving expects nothing. Return. I’ve said this in all of my books. I’ve said this in all my programs. I’ve said this in all my live events. Expectations ruin relationships. True giving expects nothing in return. Let’s get to that place. It’s not a transaction, it’s transformation.

Each time you [00:13:00] give, you tell the light. I am ready for more. I know for me. I give so much to my children without any expectation. I am really good at that. I am giving to them all day. I am loving on them. I’m giving them my time, my energy, my presence, my play, my joy. I’m really good there. I want to be better in every other area of my life.

So maybe identify where you could give more. Could you give more to your partner? Could you give more to your clients? Can you give more to your family, to your friends? That is number five. Give generously. Number six, shift from receiving for the self alone to receiving for the sake of others. This is one of the most profound capitalistic teachings that I love because there’s so much out there that says.

You can have it all. You deserve it. Fill yourself up. Self, self, [00:14:00] self, yes and receive for the sake of others, for helping others, for giving to others. The soul’s natural desire is to receive pleasure, but ego twists that desire into self-serving motives. The key is to transform the purpose of your receiving, to want blessings so you can share them.

Why do you want your desires? Is it all for yourself? Why do you want all this money? Is it all for you? Is it for your ego? Shift all of your desires for wanting all of your desires so that you can share them with others. So ask yourself, why do I want this manifestation? Why do I want this desire? If the answer serves only you, only your ego, the light cannot flow freely.

When your why includes others, your family, your community, your clients, you then become a [00:15:00] magnet for miracles. You stop chasing and you start channeling. So you are allowed to have all the desires that you want. Ask yourself, why do you want them? Is it for your ego and shift to wanting to share? So receiving for the sake of others.

This one capitalistic concept for me has been so huge. And of course a lot of the things you might want, like money for your family, so you can send your children to a certain school. But let’s take it outside of our immediate family. How can we affect our communities, our friends, our circle on a bigger scale?

So ask yourself, why do I want these desires? Make sure it includes serving others in there. Number seven, choose growth over comfort. So Kabbalah calls the ego the opponent. I call it your inner mean girl. Now, this is the part of you that [00:16:00] clings to safety and certainty. This is the one that says, you are not good enough.

You are not smart enough. Stay small. Don’t risk, don’t shine. You know the voice. We all know that voice, but your soul came here to expand. That is why we are here. Every challenge, every frustration or trigger is an invitation to grow your vessel to stretch into more light. So every time you choose growth over comfort, you get out of your comfort zone, you step into fear.

You evolve beyond reaction and become a conscious creator. The discomfort you feel is divine friction. It polishes your soul so it can hold greater blessings. So what’s one thing that scares you? What’s one thing that is outside of your comfort zone that you can do today? Say for [00:17:00] example, it is speaking to camera on Instagram stories say that is one thing that scares you.

I want you to do that every day for the next week. That is choosing growth over comfort. That is where you grow. The fear doesn’t always go away, but we move in spite of it. We move with the fear still in our car. We keep going. It’s not in the driver’s seat, but it is still there. Sometimes, not always, but sometimes.

So what scares you? Do that every single day. That is how you stretch. That is how you grow. That is how you expand your vessel to receive more light and hold more. So these are these seven mindset shifts to manifest anything you desire. Let’s recap. Number one, stop gossiping. Number two, quit negativity.

Number three, cultivate certainty. Number four, pray. Five, give [00:18:00] generously. Number six, shift from receiving for the self alone to receiving for the sake of others. And number seven, choose growth over comfort. These are powerful, and I promise if you write these down, you stick them somewhere and you embody them every day.

And don’t worry if you mess up. Even just having the awareness that you slipped up and then coming back, that’s growth. That is growth. Doing these might be one of the things that is out of your comfort zone. But I promise you, if you embody these, you will see miracles left, right, and center. You’ll become a miracle and manifestation magnet.

These codes have changed my life. They have made me a manifestation magnet for so many beautiful things in my life. So share them with your family. Share them with your kids. Teach them to your children. Write them on a Post-it note. Read them every day [00:19:00] and do your best. This is how you will manifest everything that you want in your life.

Imagine if everybody did these. Mm, delicious. I hope you loved these seven mindset shifts. I hope you embody them. If you loved this episode, please subscribe and follow the show and leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. And send me a screenshot of your review to hello@melissaambrosini.com and I’ll send you my wildly wealthy guided meditation as a thank you for taking the time to leave me a review.

I’m so grateful in advance. Thank you. And if you already have, thank you, thank you, thank you. Now, if there is someone in your life that you can think of that would really benefit from this episode, please share it with them right now. You can take a screenshot, share it on your social media, email it to them, text it to them, do whatever you’ve got to do to get this in their ears.

And until next time, don’t forget that love is sexy. Healthy is liberating, [00:20:00] and wealthy isn’t a dirty word.


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