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Struggling to Manifest What You Want? Read This.

Struggling to Manifest What You Want? Read This., Melissa Ambrosini

I used to really struggle with the word ‘abundance’. It felt self-righteous. Arrogant. And... well, not very ‘spiritual’. When I first started on my journey and heard people throwing it around left, right and centre, it made me squirm. But you know what? It was all my shit! I didn't realise this at the time, but I had blocks around abundance and manifesting, which is why nothing was flowing and I wasn’t experiencing abundance in any area of my life. Back then, I couldn’t work out why my health wasn’t soaring, why my relationships weren’t overflowing, and why I could never get a break in my career or finances. Turns out, it was because I had blocks around abundance and manifesting.

My Mean Girl told me...

You don’t deserve X, Y and Z.

Abundance doesn’t happen to people like you.

Who do you think you are, trying to manifest this and that?

Get over yourself! You will never be overflowing in your health, wealth or love.

Then I mastered her and realised that I needed to get serious about manifesting what I desired in my life. But I started manifesting from a place of fear...

I must have perfect health because I am scared of getting sick again.

I want to heal from chronic fatigue because I am over feeling like crap.

I want to call in my life partner because I am tired of being alone.

I want to find my soul mate because I feel empty on my own, and I need someone outside myself to validate my worthiness and fill the void within me.

I want more money because I must get out of debt.

I want more clients because I need money to pay my bills.

I desperately want to find something that I’m passionate about, because my life currently sucks and there’s got to be more out there than this.

I was manifesting just like all the spiritual books and teachers told me to do… and nothing was happening. Absolutely nada. I was still unwell and unhappy, so I decided  that all the manifesting hocus pocus I’d heard so much about simply mustn’t work.

That is, until I realised something massive: that I was manifesting from a place of fear. Instead of attracting in the things I desired from a place of love, I was trying to call in want I wanted while swimming in a puddle of fear… no wonder it wasn’t working!  But I was serious about achieving abundance in all areas of my life, so I thought I may as well give this whole ‘manifesting from a place of love’ thing a go. So I did!

Instead of saying, ‘I must have perfect health because I am scared of getting sick again’, I changed it around to the present tense and started saying, ‘I am healthy, strong, energetic, vital and supplement free’.

Instead of saying, ‘I want to call in my life partner because I am sick of being alone’, I started saying, ‘I am whole and complete and ready to share my completeness with another beautiful being’.

Instead of saying, ‘I want more money because I must get out of debt’, I started saying, ‘I have complete financial freedom and money is a source of happiness for me’.

Instead of saying, ‘I want more clients because I need money to pay my bills’, I started saying, ‘Client's flow to me with ease and grace’.

And instead of saying, ‘I desperately want to find something that I’m passionate about because my life currently sucks and there’s got to be more out there than this’, I started saying, ‘I am open to trying new things, feeling into what lights me up, and following my curiosity’.

Your words and thoughts are potent, so be deliberate about them. What you say to yourself will manifest in your life.

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When I first started saying these things, I didn’t fully believe them. My Mean Girl told me that it wasn’t going to work, but I knew that the only way to find out was to try. So off I went, manifesting from a place of love instead of fear, and unbeknownst to me.... it WORKED! I started manifesting abundance in my health, wealth and love. My health started to improve, clients were attracted to my work, the money began to flow, and my relationships were overflowing with love.

To truly manifest, you must draw in your desires from a place of love, not fear!

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A word of warning… your Mean Girl will kick up a stink when you start making this shift from fear to love. But master her, shut the door on her doubts, and do it anyway. You can do it, sista!

Now I would love to hear from you: What is something you want to manifest in your life? Share with me in the comments below, but make sure you are manifesting from a place of love and not fear.

And don’t forget, thousands of beautiful like-minded souls come here every day to get inspired, so open your heart and share from there. Your comment might be the one thing someone needs to read to spark massive action in their life.

As always, thank you so much for being here. I am deeply grateful and honoured I get to walk this path with you.

Love Melissa

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  1. I want to manifest freedom. Freedom of mind, freedom of money and freedom of travel. I also want to manifest that my small, new, baby of a business will boom and allow me all of the above!

  2. Kim says:

    Melissa this has hit home like nothing else. I've struggled so much with 'abundance' in areas of my life this year - manifesting from fear I've now realised! Gosh you're a gem x

  3. Nikki says:

    I needed to hear this today! I have been crippled with anxiety and fear this week, particularly around finances. All it has done is attract more moiety and fear! Im going to turn that around and channel love instead! Thank you for your gracious words Melissa, they always come at the right time xx

  4. Becky says:

    I want to manifest a healthy heart, both physically and spiritually. One that can support my life's adventures (like my goal to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro next summer,) and also my desire to call in my life partner! I want to manifest financial stability and abundance so that I can explore life, help others, and freely give. I want to manifest my business so that I can spend every day both creating art that matters, and pouring into the lives of all I encounter.

    Thank you Melissa for this amazing re-wording guide - I am having so much fun writing in my daily notebook some dreams I have with the vibe of positive manifestation!

    xo

  5. Alicia says:

    This post couldn't have come at a better time. I'm doing the same thing as you were. Reading all the books and trying to learn to manifest abundance in my life. I feel like I'm poised on the tip of a wave and there's about to be this rush of incredible goodness in my life, if only I can just master my mean girl and truly tap into the love I know I am.

    The fear has been strong these past few years. I'm also recovering from chronic fatigue, so my goodness, this post really spoke to me! You've helped me to realise how I've been trying to manifest in certain areas from a place of fear...so now I'm going to work harder on manifesting from a place of joy and love. It's funny, there are moments where I feel so much joy and high vibration around certain things, but then others I just feel stuck!

    Most of all, I just want to have fun with it because I feel like that's when I truly tap into the essence of me. The real me, not my mean girl. Thanks Melissa, you've nailed it again. I love your posts and am looking forward to coming to a goddess group in the near future!

    • Melissa says:

      Pleasure Alicia, super proud of you honey for showing and continuing to master your Mean Girl. You are amazing! Keep going angel.

  6. Jorja says:

    Hi Melissa,

    Thank you for this post. It came at a really great time for me!
    Last night I said would be the LAST time I drove home from work in tears because of stress and unhappiness. Today I will stop telling myself that my 'hobbies' and 'interests' will never earn me money and I will manifest that I deserve health and happiness.
    xoxox

    • Melissa says:

      Yes you do angel. You deserve all the health and happiness in the world. You just have to believe it first 😉

    • Justyna says:

      Hi Jorja,
      I can feel you! I felt exactly the same, on Monday I've handed in my resignation at work. Had enough of stress, working overtime. Even if it gave me financial stability during those 2 years it ruined my health, anxiety grew to panic attacks. I think now it's high time I tell Mean Girl to shut the f*** up as she's still saying I won't pay bills from my hobby.
      Good luck to you Jorja!! xx

      • Jorja says:

        Thank you Melissa and thank you Justyna! I'm very happy for you! All the best, I'm sure your decision will work out.
        Jorja xo

  7. Karen says:

    Thanks Melissa! I can't wait to read more x

    Here is my manifestation for this month: I have everything I need within me to run a successful business.... I am a caring coach and mentor, so I will attract the right people into my life & business at exactly the right time.

  8. Sam says:

    Great article! It has taken me so long to believe I am worthy of abundance in my life, particularly in the areas of work and finances. I once felt wanting to be wealthy was being arrogant which created feelings of unworthiness. I believe my thoughts have now shifted, and that I can create wealth doing what I enjoy. I am ready to recieve abundance in all areas of my life. Thanks Melissa xx

  9. Jamie Lynn says:

    I just started swimming lanes. I try to say an affirmation in my mind between each breath. It keeps my mind empty as it becomes almost like chanting. After my swim I am so energized and feel super positive. I will tighten up my afformations with these suggestions. Thank you.

  10. saf says:

    what do u mean"from place of love"....how does that happen ?

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Saf,

      Manifesting from love means manifesting from your heart, instead of manifesting from fear (your head) you choose to manifest from your heart space (which is your truth). Does that make sense?

  11. Kate says:

    My passion since I was a little girl was to be a successful actor in Australian film and tv. The burning desire has been with me longer than I can remember and every time I stepped away from performing, it literally screamed at me. Nawing at first, then into a full blown roar. Well I am finally taking the bull by the horns. Last month I quit my day job and my manifestations are around "fulfilling acting work flows to me with ease and grace". The wording is based on your suggestions. Thank you for your inspiration.

  12. Bec says:

    I love this, the way you have written this piece makes so much sense to me and i now understand why i have been struggling with manifesting what i want. I even have a heart with the words love tattooed inside of it on my wrist so i can see it every day. I always say to myself do everything with love. I want to work for myself, from where ever i may be spreading light, love and magic doing what i love. Inspiring, uplifting and encouraging others through my art, words and photography.

    I love your book 'Mastering Your Mean Girl', it's awesome!

    Love & Gratitude,

    Bec xx

  13. Lauren says:

    I want to manifest our very first baby for my husband and I! I've dreamt of being a mother my whole life, and now is the absolute perfect time in our lives for our family to expand!

  14. Carly says:

    Proud to have you as a fellow human sharing these messages of greater good. So lovely to see. Good on YOU for sharing these beautiful thoughts for all to benefit. Xx

  15. Rebecca says:

    I've been trying to manifest certain things for what feels like forever and now, reading this I realise I was using fear not love. I'm going to give your advice a go. Thank you xx

  16. Renee says:

    Melissa, you are amazing! I want to manifest an abundant business of helping people become healthy! I'm mastering my mean girl every day and it is work. But so worth the effort!!

    Thanks so much for being you and sharing with all of us beautiful sisters in the world!!

  17. Tracey says:

    Thank you

  18. Sam says:

    Thank you so much for these words of wisdom; I was totally vibing with this post today and think it was exactly what I needed to hear! In the midst of grad school applications right now, it's easy to look around and feel the not-good-enoughs. This was a great reminder to embrace how much I have accomplished and let that guide me to an acceptance letter!

  19. Kate says:

    I will be a beautiful mum from a healthy and happy Boy and I live within a peaceful and safe and safe family.

  20. Megane says:

    Hi Melissa !

    Thank you for this great post !

    I have a question about affirmations. Do you have some exercices or tips about how to use them daily ? I've heard a lot about affirmations and mantras, but I'm kind of "lost" about how to use them in my life.
    It would be great to have some of your advices 🙂

    Thank you by advance and thank you again for this great work that you give us each week ! 🙂

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Megane,

      Have you read my book Mastering Your Mean Girl yet? I give you loads of affirmations in there that you can use daily. The best way to start using affirmations is to pick something that resonates and lights you up. Then you say it daily, over and over again whenever your Mean Girl pops up.You can also put it all around your house and as reminders in your phone to help remind you. Check out my book, I have loads of other tips and tricks in there for you 😉

  21. Gina says:

    I am so happy I read this! I have totally been manifesting from fear without even realizing. My mental and physical health are very poor right now as I am just starting the practice of mastering my mean girl. I now know and understand that my thoughts are so strong and if I use them out of love, I will be able to be the vibrant person I used to be. I can not wait to become my whole self. Thank Melissa!

  22. iNiva says:

    I want to manifest a hear to heart conversation with my twin flame. Please help me to rephrase that from the place of love instead of fear. Thank you in advance

    • Melissa says:

      Hey honey,

      I would say something like, 'I communicate openly and with love in all my interactions.' Does that feel true for you? It's important that it resonates with you. If not, find words that do honey. That's the best way to manifest your desires.

      I hope that helps.

      xx

  23. Mignoon says:

    Hi Melissa!

    Thank you for sharing this article. That saved my life a tons... I was caught up by manifesting out of a fear just like you did. But you just taught me to built my life around a love. Then I started appreciating the life around me and the world is looking nicer. Have a great day ahead.

  24. Andrea says:

    I want to manifest forgiveness. Forgiveness of both myself and particular others, but I have no idea how to do this from a place of love. I am afraid to forgive both, which I know means that I won't actually manifest the forgiveness I so desperately seek, want and crave...

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Andrea,

      Have you read the chapter in Mastering Your Mean Girl about forgiveness? I think that will help you loads. Have a read and let me know if you have any questions 😉

      xx

  25. Tam says:

    This same shift happened to me. I focused on feeling good about what I already had whilst affirming what I wanted and it started to unfold into a situation I had only dreamed of months before. Great advice and it works <3

  26. Yasmin says:

    I am filled with free flying abundance, creative work and people are drawn to me as I live a life I ever dreamed about. I am glowing with health, strength and LOVE. I am financially capable and free of worry. I am love. I am light.

  27. Hayley says:

    Hi Melissa,
    I have commented on Amazon before about how reading your book mastering your mean girl changed my life. A friend brought me to your book launch in February this year and I purchased your book from the event and your meditations. And I am not kidding - every single thing I have ever wanted in my life has come true since then. I meditated everyday without fail for 3 months (less frequently now - but still love to) The universe listened to me and has practically handed all of my dreams to me on a platter - right down to a new marketing business where clients are in the waiting list to use my services! I have quadrupled my income in 6 months and ideas and ways of improving my service and value for my clients come to me with ease. Plus I now drive a BMW and have moved to a brand new 6 bedroom home in a beautiful suburb with my beautiful big family of 5 children. I know this all seems about money, but it's not, it's about how I now value myself. I came from a place of constant fear and negative self talk and used some hardships that previously happened in my life as excuses to hold back - I was a poor me person. NOT ANYMORE! Now I am an "i can do what ever I want person and I will find a way person". I feel successful. But if I think about the rapid mental shift that occurred within me - the pivotal moment was seeing you present and reading your book. My life will always be up and down (as life is for everyone) but my core view of it has permanently changed so Thankyou for what you do. And anyone thinking about manifesting using Melissa's techniques - it works. God bless you from Hayley Jane Marketing xxx

    • Melissa says:

      Oh honey, this gave me full body goosebumps. I am beyond proud of you angel. Keep up the awesome work. You got this!

  28. Gaby says:

    I want to manifest a soul mate, a partner. This blog really help me switch my prospective, I've been trying to manifest this by asking the universe out of fear, instead of coming from a place of love. Like you said I'm whole and I'm ready to share all my happiness with that special someone.

  29. Erin says:

    I am the architect of my life; I build its foundation and choose its contents!

    This is one of my daily mantras and it has helped me to realize that I am in control of my life. Life doesn't just happen to us! We get to choose!

  30. Luba says:

    Thank you for this message! I was in definite need of hearing that today 🙂
    I have just started a new business and of course at the start you question you purpose and worth, and if it will even pan out and work and bring prosperity.
    I want to manifest confidence, abundance, freedom and love.
    I am confident in my worth, knowledge and genuine passion to help other, I trust that the right clients will flow my way in thier perfect time.
    I have the freedom to do and help and creat anything I want and I am proud of my work and dedication. Lastly I am sending love to anyone and all who need it. <3

  31. Gemma says:

    I want to manifest abudance in my career. I feel like I'm constantly chasing down opportunities like a hound dog and they are slipping through my fingers. My desperation feels palpable and it feels like it's driving opportunities away. I'm an actor and I've been taught to live in a place of fear - you won't work unless you're hungry too - but I know there's got to be something more.

    • Melissa says:

      Oh there is angel. Do it because you love it, let go of the fear and trust that the perfect role will present its self to you always.

  32. Richelle says:

    Hi Melissa!
    Love this blog post - thanks for sharing.
    I have a manifesting question for you or any of your lovely followers who might be able to help.
    I wanted to know what people's thoughts are on asking the universe for signs. The reason being I asked the universe for a sign if I should take a specific direction with my career and I got a big fat 'no' and I was sure the answer would be yes! So now I don't know what to do ....
    Is it bad karma if I do it anyway? I really felt like it was the way forward but really wanted confirmation or reassurance.
    Would love any advice!
    Thanks
    Richelle xx

    • Melissa says:

      Hey Richelle,

      I sometimes ask for signs but I mostly ask myself. I sit in meditation and ask my higher self for guidance. Give that a go sweetie and let me know how you go.

  33. Sarah Hopkins says:

    Hi Mellissa

    After reading this and your book I can see how my driver has been fear for such a very long time ...

    That is about to change, hell it's started to change already ... my daily journal is filling up with fear statements so easily it is unreal ... but slowly I'm converting them, driven this time by love and compassion. I was so uncomfortable at first, it felt like I was undeserving or bragging even. I'm becoming more grateful for what I have, not seeing it as a bad thing so much. I think I could get used to this abundance, it such a beautiful place to be ...

    Thank you so much for your explanation and example's!

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